Emerald Dandy

I bid thee farewell...

2011-10-08T08:49:00.000-07:00

This has been too long in the making, but it's finally become that time...

It is with very mixed emotions that I am writing my final post for this blog. Where I am today is certainly much different from where I was when I first started my rants and raves, and to continue on with ED just wouldn't feel right.

To that end, my writing will still go on. I've chosen to create another blog with a certain level of anonymity. What I love about my writing is the freedom and creativity of translating the thoughts running through my mind onto paper (or a computer screen, for that matter), and I feel most free when people are reading my writing for writing's sake, not simply because its mine.

Thank you for all of your love and support.
E.D.

Sunny San Jo so far...

2011-01-09T21:16:00.000-08:00

As we speak I'm sitting on our blowup mattress in our new apartment - watching tv (thank you cableguy for coming on Sunday) and spending my first night in the new home. Until the movers arrive with all of our belongings we're staying cozy with what few pieces we have with us. Even though this transformation has only taken about one week, it's been overwhelming at that. Finally, I am thrilled to feel like things are falling into place; it feels as if the craziness of the last week is beginning to subside.

I've been in the State of California for two days now and I've noticed a few things that I've got to become accustomed to:

-There are more Interstates and Highways than I know what to do with. EVERY single trip we've taken, whether to the grocery store or to Target, recommends traveling down a highway. We've had to get creative trying to soak in our surroundings when driving 70+ and dodging drivers, which leads me to...

-Aggressive drivers. I've always known that California is synonymous with aggressive drivers, but hot damn I've never realized how true this is! I found it quite peculiar yesterday that when going 10 miles over the speed limit I was STILL getting passed left and right.

-Suburbia. Our apartment is beautiful, and our apartment community is truly awe-inspiring - as if we're in a Mediterranean villa. What gets me is how spread out we are from anything. Grocery store - half mile away. Bank - mile away. This city is clearly auto-centric, and I didn't realize that's what I was getting into.

-Public transportation doesn't seem so bad... sort of. We're not even two blocks from two light-rail lines... but said lines apparently run slower than molasses. Case in point: if I want to get to work via public transportation it would take me right around 60 minutes to do it. Granted, i won't mind being able to relax and zone out while on the train, but comparing a 60 minute ride (via bus AND light rail) versus a 10 minute drive... does that seem crazy?

-There's a plethora of agriculture in this state... at least in Northern Cal. Driving down from Seattle we witnessed fields, orchards, and groves of so many different fruits and vegetables that we didn't even know what to do with ourselves! Needless to say, it was very intriguing to try and discern each tree, shrub, plant that passed us by.

-For those of you that are familiar with Renton, Washington... that's where I feel I am right now.

-I have yet to see many pretty people. I really hope they're in hiding, or that I'm just not looking in the right place. There's got to be some fashionable folk down here in SJ, no?

Bay Area or Bust

2011-01-08T11:45:00.001-08:00

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Do you know the way to San Jose?

2011-01-04T14:02:00.001-08:00

I couldnt help but post this - it felts so stereotypically California.

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The Next Chapter Begins...

2011-01-01T17:34:00.000-08:00

First and foremost, Happy New Year to you all!

What a whirlwind year 2010 has been, and how it looks to be that 2011 is continuing on with the same intensity.

I realize I've failed to document much of last year and though it kills me, I will persist in the coming year. While it is only the 1st of the new year, many changes have blessed my life.

It is with very mixed emotions, great excitement and apprehension, happiness and sadness, to announce that the Emerald Dandy is undergoing a life change unlike I've ever experienced. By this time next week, my boy and I will be settling into our new life in the Bay Area.

In what was a whirlwind of a week before New Years, I found my career to be taking me to San Jose, CA. In less than two weeks I will be undergoing a dramatic move from the dreary gray of Seattle toward the sun-soaked skies of San Jo. Though I will admit, this new journey is simply a stepping stone: before you know it I'll be coming to you live from San Francisco.

Though I am thrilled to pieces about this new change that I am about to undergo, much sadness comes with this process. I will miss so immensely the friends and family who have been a part of my life in this city for the last 8 years (not to mention the many years prior living just north of Seattle). It has been such a fantastic ride that it's bittersweet to see it end. I will miss the good times and the bad, but in the end I am excited to venture into the unknown.

Thank you for all of your support. This is not a goodbye, but rather 'see you next time.'

Swoonworthy

2010-09-06T12:00:00.000-07:00

As if I didn't love San Francisco enough, Bersa had to go and photograph Jake Madden in the following for "Cafe" Magazine. Does anyone else find this to be as beautiful as I do?

I love the denim shirt. I've been seeing a lot of denim action (as more than just jeans), even so much as pairing mixed denim as an outfit. Is anybody else feeling the denim trend? I think I need to get myself a Denim shirt asap.

I don't particularly love this outfit, but the location has done enough for me. Take me back!

I love how effortlessly vintage this outfit looks. Camel has been the most discussed color for fall - do you have your camel ready? I'll be honest, I'm still on the lookout for that perfect camel coat that I can wrap myself into on those lousy grey Seattle days.

LOVE this jacket. I don't even know how to describe how much I love it! I'm also kinda digging the boots which, to me, look like an updated UGG (though I know they're clearly not).

*Swoon* this picture just gets to me everytime I look at it. I love SF's Chinatown, and I love this outfit. I think I tend to find myself so attracted to these photos not only because of the location, but because of the style Bersa used to shoot: these pictures have that vintage flair, giving me the impression that these are pictures for a bygone era. I love being able to dream back to those "glory days," of the rise of Hollywood, that time when innocence seems of the essence, yet so much change has become inevitable.

Call me old fashioned I suppose, but I can't get over that time nor place. As Tony Bennett once said, "I left my heart in San Francisco." Hopefully someday, I'll be able to get it back.

I want!

2010-09-04T12:00:00.000-07:00

Thanks to my daily blog musings (this time courtesy of homotography.com), I stumbled across a label I had never heard before... I am now overwhelmingly intrigued. Take a look at Ermanno Scervino's SS11 collection and tell me what you think. I love the short shorts (hence my last post), the drapey (and striped) sweaters and knits, and those great slouchy Peter Pan style boots. To put it all together, I felt this collection was styled in a beautiful way: editorial yet inspirationally everyday.

Hey Legs...

2010-09-02T14:57:00.000-07:00

Does Baptiste Giabiconi not look amazing?!

I am well aware of the fact that I'm late in the game when commenting on this picture of Karl Lagerfeld's current muse; but DAMN, how could this not draw attention? I'm really quite drawn to the idea of these short shorts that he's wearing (I imagine they're CHANEL no less), but how he so effortlessly pulls them off and makes them look great. Let's be real for a moment; not every Joe 6-pack would be able to do this look (nor would many even feel comfortable), but aside from Giabiconi, who else could?

Let's just say I gotta hit the gym, tanning bed, and spa (my legs have never been waxed nor shaved; ever) a bit harder if I ever decide to go for this look. After all, nobody with hairy/pasty/flabby (or any combination of these three) should consider short shorts, no?

*I also have to give Giabiconi credit on his hair as well... why can't I have straight hair too?

M.I.A. yet again...

2010-08-15T15:25:00.000-07:00

My what a summer this year has been! I haven't forgotten about all my lovelies, nor have I run out of things to write about, I've just been busier than I know what to do with myself!

Stay tuned, I'm knocking a few posts left and right, and will hopefully get myself back into the swing of things!

Day 26: Your week, in great detail.

2010-07-24T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 26: Your week, in great detail.

In all honesty, my weeks aren't very exciting. Let me break down my past week for you - and I think you'll certainly agree.

Tuesday: I worked a mid shift today (in an attempt to give my team a little break). That being said, I allowed myself to sleep in a little bit before work (just a little bit). The work day wasn't terribly exciting - a large balance of sale merchandise arrived rich I got out onto the floor, and I sold virtually nothing. I wish I could tell you more, but I truly don't recall what was done a week ago.

Wednesday: I closed at work (again, to help the team out). Closing allowed me to sleep in, which is always nice. My typical mornings consist of waking up, watching a little of the Today Show, enjoying some coffee and a breakfast of sorts. Closing at work, I went to lunch (or dinner as most people would say) with one of my former employees who just got promoted out to Florida. Closing shifts have been pretty uneventful, and there really isn't more to say about it.

Thursday: Closed yet again (I promise, this isn't a typical shift I work), and the vast majority of our sale shipments arrived (read: 6 trunks or about 12 rolling racks or merch) had to be steamed, sorted, and put out on the floor. Lunch consisted of cheese and crackers plus water... let's just say it was a working lunch. Needless to say that took up the entirety of my night.

Friday: I had the day off, and for some reason I can't even recall what I did. I do remember opting out of using my cane (it was really just becoming a pest), and going to dinner with the boy at Re:Public, my newest favorite bar/restaurant. While there, our good friend Austin joined us for a couple beers. It was a fun evening.

Saturday: I closed again (i was not paying attention when writing my schedule). This couldn't have been a more uneventful day at work. I didn't sell a thing, and I feel like I was a complete waste of space. Complete waste. Today was eventful in the sense that it was the first day I chose to not use my cane at work.

Sunday: Sunday, sunday, sunday. I chose to work today (being the 4th = double time), and managed to get quite a bit done. I did some floor moves, and got caught up on all of my emails. Work was yet again quieter than ever, so I opted to leave early to get prepared for the 4th festivities. Sad thing about the 4th, it had rained for the majority of the day so we had to get a little creative. The party started at our apartment, and when the rain finally let up we made our way up to the roof (bundled up, of course), and chowed down on bbq, buca di beppo (erm), and beer. The fireworks weren't too shabby, though the clouds somewhat got in the way. All in all, we all made the best of the 4th... but it was certainly the coldest, wettest 4th I've ever experienced.

Monday: Trying to open at work was a nightmare. I was slightly hungover, and this Monday happened to be an observed holiday (read: all coffee shops were closed)... by the time I tracked down a Starbucks to get a coffee and breakfast sandwich (I needed grease), I discovered the oven was broken... so no grease for me. Work was slightly hectic, since we're getting into the busiest time of the year, but I managed to keep myself busy to let the time fly by. I had a lovely lunch date surprise from the boy, and post work we had a peaceful evening together. I had ordered us some takeout, we ran a few errands, and ended our evening with a quick stop at Red Mango before getting settled in to a night of lounging.

Tuesday: See my post of my day in detail (Day 25).

In my opinion, that might have been too much detail... for what was a somewhat boring week... wouldn't you think?

Day 25: Your day, in great detail

2010-07-22T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 25: Your day, in great detail

Today was certainly a great day, hopefully I don't bore you with my details of the day so far...

I had the pleasure of having today off (before the insanity of work during the month of July really sets in)... and because of it, I slept in until ~~ten~~ eight-thirty (after being awoken by the boy and the puppy) I managed to spend some quality time relaxing in bed while the sun began to rise on one of the first nice days of the year.

Having the pleasure of sleeping in, I festered up some energy, got myself out of bed (after of course, making it), and brewed some coffee (sidenote: I have a serious love/hate relationship with my coffeemaker). While the coffee brewed I gave my puppy some love (with the new squishy googly ball we got him) and got myself to wake up.

Coffee in hand, I sat my ass on the couch and watched Kathy Lee/Hoda on the Today Show while sippin on my coffee. As the boys made their way out to work/daycare, I showered myself, slipped on some shirts and a tank, grabbed a slice of leftover pizza, and hit the patio for some much needed Vitamin D.

Of course I couldn't just lay there to sizzle solo so I brought with me my iPhone to blast my current favorite Pandora station while diving into my latest read "Celebutante." By that time the boy had made it back home (he typically does a half day at the office at most, while doing the rest at home) and we had opted to run some errands.

On the agenda: Queen Anne for a stop at Dispatch (greeting cards were needed), Pro Nails (a pedicure was in serious order), Trader Joe's (two-buck chuck anyone?), Fed-Ex (to send a package, why else?), Doggie Day Care to pick up the pup, and a quick stop at Vivace for a much needed afternoon pick-me-up.

Upon getting home, I found myself crashing in front of the tv. The boy had to make his way to a late afternoon work meeting, so I've gotten myself caught up on all of my blog reads, my blogging, watching the news, The City, and now, The Hills.

That's my day thus far... who knows what I'll get myself into by nights end...

Day 24: Whatever tickles your fancy

2010-07-20T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 23: Whatever tickles your fancy

Should Seattle have a Nude Beach?

It's been a topic that's gotten lots of press as of late, and it's certainly been on my mind. Let's say Seattle had a nude beach, would you go?

The reality of it is, nude beaches aren't offensive. Unfortunately the majority of folks who use these beaches are not easy on the eyes, so it wouldn't make for exciting people watching. Some people just want to let it all hang out and go through life without tan lines. Wouldn't you?

Day 23: A youtube video

2010-07-18T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 23: A youtube video

Please tell me you find this as funny as I do...

Day 22: A website

2010-07-16T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 22: A website

The Cool Hunter: I can get locked into this website for hours. Check it out, you'll certainly get inspired!

Day 21: A recipe

2010-07-14T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 21: A recipe

The fat kid inside me comes screaming with this recipe... in fact, I think it's about time that I make it once again...

Muddy Buddies

Ingredients

9	cups Rice Chex®, Corn Chex® or Chocolate Chex® cereal (or combination)
1	cup semisweet chocolate chips
1/2	cup peanut butter
1/4	cup butter or margarine
1	teaspoon vanilla
1 1/2	cups powdered sugar

Prepare:

1.	Into large bowl, measure cereal; set aside.
2.	In 1-quart microwavable bowl, microwave chocolate chips, peanut butter and butter uncovered on High 1 minute; stir. Microwave about 30 seconds longer or until mixture can be stirred smooth. Stir in vanilla. Pour mixture over cereal, stirring until evenly coated. Pour into 2-gallon resealable food-storage plastic bag.
3.	Add powdered sugar. Seal bag; shake until well coated. Spread on waxed paper to cool. Store in airtight container in refrigerator.

Day 20: A hobby of yours

2010-07-12T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 20: A hobby of yours

Which hobby to choose? There's writing, reading, the inappropriate for comment hobby, the (supposed) hobby of recreational drinking, sketching, dancing, wakeboarding (though it's been too long), snowboarding...

Here's one that I'm itching to get back into...

Tennis, anyone?!

Day 19: A talent of yours

2010-07-10T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 19: A talent of yours

So I couldn't refuse posting this...

image source: fugly.com

Can you guess what she's doing? This picture is too funny!

In case you haven't figured it out by now; it's belching. Friends and family HATE that I do this, but I've been trained by the best and now it's somewhat unstoppable.

Don't you worry, I have many more talents (though many have been put on hold due to my injury), but I found this to be most entertaining.

Day 18: Whatever tickles your fancy

2010-07-08T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 18: Whatever tickles your fancy

I love this skit!

Day 17: An art piece

2010-07-06T00:00:00.001-07:00

Day 17: An art piece

Tango in a Box - Philippe Bertho

The work of Philippe Bertho first caught my attention as I was walking down Geary Street in San Francisco to be exact. I was headed toward Union Square from my hotel when to my surprise these paintings grabbed my attention from the gallery at which they were prominently displayed. I was captivated by what seemed like nothing but bubbles, lines, and various shapes, but what drew me closer was the story being told within each piece.

Clearly my checkbook can't afford it now, but I hope to some day own a Bertho piece of my very own!

Journey to a land far far away...

2010-07-05T00:00:00.000-07:00

Growing up I've always dreamt and desired of traveling the globe. Visiting and experiencing places and things I've never done or seen before. Europe has always been my overseas destination of choice, but these days I'm itching to go try something completely different.

I've got Shanghai on my mind...

It started with viewing Chanel's Prefall, Paris-Shanghai collection (which you'll see below). Set at Huangpu Park overlooking on the Shanghai River, the collection is viewed underneath the glowing neons of such a futuristic city. Post collection, a lot of buzz has been generated around the city of the future. Bloggers, newswriters, and fashionistas alike all started buzzing about Shanghai.

I started to do some research and realized that visiting Shanghai would be a complete dream. Experiencing a city so futuristic (nothing in the US even remotely compares), and being in a land so foreign would be absolutely intriguing and magical at the same time. I can't even imagine the excitement, the fear, the exhilaration I'd have deboarding a plane and entering a land where I couldn't understand a thing. I wouldn't be able to speak the language, I sure as hell wouldn't be able to read the language, I would be a complete and utter foreigner. There is something so disturbingly awesome about that idea - it makes me want to book my tiicket now!

So I'm curious to know, is there anyplace special you'd like to go?

Day 16: A song that makes you cry

2010-07-04T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 16: A song that makes you cry

There are truthfully quite a few songs in my playlist that brings tears to my eye. Today, I'll bring you the latest in my playlist that does just that...

Day 15: A fanfic

2010-07-02T16:00:00.000-07:00

Day 15: A fanfic

I don't even know what the hell a fanfic is so I'm instead going to post my current obsession:

CAMO

I'm all about Camouflage from a Sartorialist standpoint, especially when seeing the Italian's stylistic interpretation on the military trend. Check this images our (all courtesy of Tommy Ton via GQ.com) and tell me what you think.

First things first, I WANT that blue-toned camo. Does anybody know who these are from? I've searched high and low to figure out who designed them but have so far had no such luck.

Call me crazy, but I like the idea of a Camo short paired back to a blazer, a button up, or a denim shirt. I also like the idea of a Camo jacket (or blazer) paired back to a classic trouser pant or short. The juxtaposition of casual military with business chic is wonderful to me.

So, what do you think? Do you agree? Or am I alone on this one...

Day 14: A non-fictional book

2010-06-29T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 14: A non-fictional book

So to be honest I'm not really sure if this could be considered non-fiction... but since it's a number of short stories (perhaps slightly exaggerated) from David's childhood, I'm going to use it anyway.

David Sedaris is quite possibly one of the funniest authors I've read - and if you haven't read any of his books I highly recommend you do so.

Can you guys tell that this 30 Days challenge is starting to wear down on me?!

Day 13: A fictional book

2010-06-27T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 13: A fictional book

Well... since I've already talked about my favorite book here I suppose it's time to mention another favorite:

This isn't necessarily my favorite book, persay, but rather one of my last reads. I would've never thought to pick this up at the bookstore (or library even), but had found in the lobby of my building, looking for a new home. I figured, what the hell? I could give it a shot and see how I liked it.

Turns out, it's a pretty funny book. It's not necessarily a page-turner, or a novel worthy of Oprah's book club, but it's still an enjoyable read nonetheless.

Day 12: Whatever tickles your fancy

2010-06-25T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 12: Whatever tickles your fancy

I don't know why it's taken me so long to truly discover his amazing photographic talent, but lately I've been obsessing over Tommy Ton's latest stint with GQ. He has done such a fantastic job capturing such a variety of unique style while in Milan (and of course, for many years across the globe). One thing that I really appreciate about Tommy Ton's work is that he doesn't necessarily always capture an entire look; but rather, he focuses in on specific details that put the entire look together.

I'm sure many of you are aware of his blog, but if for some reason you're not, you must check it out!

Day 11: A photo of you taken recently

2010-06-23T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 11: A recent photo of you

I like to call this "Hospital Couture"

This picture was taken this past April... just a day after my surgery. Needless to say, I'm walking now (with a cane, but walking none-the-less), but my experience was certainly very interesting. If I can say anything more about this; hospital gowns are NOT forgiving. I pulled many Brittany moment's while at the hospital... enough people saw me exposed (both front and back), I really should've charged admission!

Day 10: A photo taken of you over ten years ago

2010-06-21T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 10: A photo taken of you over ten years ago

This photo was taken just shy of 10 years ago: September 2000. Location: Mount Vernon High School soccer field. Reason: Marching Band Practice. I was 15, and with my fun loving, trendsetting friend, Lauri, who is currently being fabulous in the Windy City. It's unbelievable to see where we've been and where we are today!

Day 9: A photo you took

2010-06-19T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 9: A photo you took

I took this picture back in 2007, while on a family vacation to Maui. I didn't think anything of the moment while taking this pic, but looking back it reminds me of such a wonderful time. It's been 3 years since I've had a vacation where I could sit out in the sun and simply do nothing. 3 years since my vacation has been more relaxing than stressful. I'm not blaming anybody but myself for that choice, but it's shown me how much I miss the idea of a lazy vacation.

Day 8: A Photo that makes you sad/angry

2010-06-17T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 8: A photo that makes you sad/angry

Here is a photo from the current monstrosity known as the BP Oil Spill of the Gulf. This picture completely outrages me for so many reasons. Our environment is being destroyed, and a disaster such as this is causing so much harm to so many lives, whether it be human or not. Animals are being coated in oil, many being killed. An economy is being destroyed because of one companies poor practices. It's because of BP and their lack of attention (and decisions to save a few $$ here and there) that caused this oil spill. What kills me about this is how BP hasn't taken this spill seriously - we're nearing 50 days of leaking oil, and still no resolution has occurred. I'm also quite disappointed in the US Government for not reacting as quickly as they should have.

What seems like a "little leak" will cause devastation to the Gulf region for years to come. So much damage (much of it irreperable) is happening and will continue to do so until that pipeline has been fixed. We can all thank our society for this: it's because of our glutenous, money grubbing ways that has caused companies such as BP to cut as many corners as possible to attain an awe-striking profit. Enough writing about this, discussing this disaster only frustrates me further.

Mai Tai, anyone?

2010-06-16T00:00:00.000-07:00

I don't know about you guys, but I'm desperately craving a vacation. You can argue that I "had" a vacation while taking my leave of absence from work, but I couldn't disagree more. March would have been my last vacation, and as enjoyable as that was, I'm craving something a bit different.

I'm craving a tropical vacation. Doesn't that sound nice?

How wonderful would it be to find yourself awoken to the sun shining into your room. You wake up, and make your way out to the balcony to enjoy breakfast with the sun out and the temperature starting to rise. After you finish breakfast you make your way to the beach, simply to lay there and bask in the sunshine, getting some serious Vitamin D.

Or maybe you spend your afternoon by the pool...

enjoying a refreshing mojito in between dips in the pool and relaxing in the sun...

...and after a long day of nothing but relaxing beneath the rays in your swimsuit, you make your way back to the hotel to change into some real clothes... only to find yourself enjoying dinner on the beach.

After dinner, you make your way onto a luxury yacht for late night cocktails and a tour around the water. Tomorrow, instead of sitting by the beach you'll be on the yacht, enjoying the sun from out at sea, taking some time out for snorkeling and sheer bliss.

Doesn't that sound like a fantastic idea? Here's to dreaming...

Day 7: A Photo that makes you happy

2010-06-15T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 7: A photo that makes you happy

Emerald and Alyssa, March 2008

This post was relatively difficult for me, as I truly struggled to post just one photo that makes me happy. There are many photos in my life that make me happy, and for many various reasons. I have photos that make me happy because they mark various accomplishments throughout life; photos of friends and family members who I love and hold dearly; photos from pieces of this earth I find to be beautiful (whether it be a specific setting, location, area, moment, etc). And THEN, there are all those photos floating out there on the interne.

I chose this picture of Alyssa and myself because it stopped me in my tracks while I was perusing through my photos. It's from my birthday a few years ago, and there is so much to say about this photo. It captures the essence of fantastic friendships, of love, of a life that seems so carefree. It conveys so much more, but happiness is the underlying theme.

Interestingly enough, Alyssa has recently had a very momentous occasion happen in her life: she's gotten engaged! Congrats to her - this is such an exciting chapter of her life!!

Day 6: Whatever tickles your fancy

2010-06-13T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 6: Whatever tickles your fancy

Okay, so disregard the fact that you see two rather attractive men in skimpy swimwear (a la Marc Jacobs), because I'm posting this for many different reasons (though the eye candy is nice, no?) This photo embodies so much that I've yearned for and pondered over (especially during my time off), it just seemed fitting.

If you didn't already know, the two pictured are Marc Jacobs and Lorenzo Martone (who I've discussed before). Regardless of the negative press that's been out lately, these two are a happily "married" publicly gay couple who I somewhat idolize. These two have each been through so much throughout there lives; so many struggles, hardships, and problems, yet they've managed to make it through to the other side achieving love, happiness, and success.

I love seeing how happy they are together, yet so easily able to be apart (as their jobs sometimes require) from each other without any jealous tendencies coming out (as is typical with most gays). I love seeing how carefree their lives can be (though we all know this can't typically be the case), hearing about their "marriage" celebration amongst friends, or their vacations to the tropics using their Birkin's as beach bags. I love seeing two gorgeous men dressed impeccably expressing their love to each other. It's such a rare sight, but such a treat to see. There is so much about this that I love!

I look forward to the day when I get there. When the debts are paid, and the love remains strong. I look forward to the day when my love and I are able to look back at the hard work and struggles we went through and are able to appreciate where we have gotten ourselves to. I look forward to the day when taking a tropical vacation is no sweat, and doesn't require years of planning and saving. I may never be so extreme, but wouldn't it be great to shlep last years Birkin to the beach? (I know I wouldn't mind...). Most importantly, I look forward to seeing where the future takes me.

Under the Sheets-shhh: Guest Post!

2010-06-12T00:00:00.000-07:00

For those of you new to Emerald Dandy, welcome! I'm glad you came!

In honor of the lovely Laura at Under The Sheets-shhh and her upcoming wedding ceremony(s), I've been given the privilege of guest posting on her blog. For those few regular readers of mine, you've already read the story of how I fell in love, but I absolutely require that you stop by her blog and send her well wishes on such a momentous occasion!

The Lovely Laura at one of her two engagement parties

I first stumbled upon Laura's blog just over one year ago when I was lamenting about my love of San Francisco. As I was perusing blogs of San Fran, I was captivated by a story called 'Cable Car Confessions.' Within moments I was hooked on Laura's blog. Her writing is stellar, her posts are so much fun to read (always laden with beautiful photos), and she's truly inspirational. If you haven't discovered her by now, you need to check out Under the Sheets-shhh at once!

And lastly, Congratulations to Laura on such a momentous occasion!

Day 5: Favorite Quote

2010-06-11T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 5: Favorite Quote

"Fashions fade. Style is eternal." Yves Saint Laurent

Now of course, I have many other quotes that I quite enjoy, but YSL sums it up the best. We can all be consumed, even obsessed with fashion, but it truly means nothing. It's the direct interpretation into ones style which makes all the difference.

Here are three more quotes to hold you over (two of which are primarily comical). Enjoy!

"In order to be irreplaceable one must always be different." Coco Chanel

"She's got an LA Face with an Oakland Booty." Sir Mix-a-lot

"I want to get H's. H for Heidi." Heidi Montag

Day 4: Favorite Book

2010-06-09T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 4: Favorite Book

The Great Gatsby

I've been a fan of this book since I was a very young kid. I remember first seeing the movie when I was in grade school and being so fascinated by the New York life of the 1920s. Nick's journey to New York (or Long Island to be more precise), the lawn parties, trips to the city, the love triangle, all pieces to the story which greatly intrigued me. I have always been fascinated with earlier decades, and this book certainly heightened my obsession for the flapper's era. F. Scott Fitzgerald has been a favorite author of mine (much like Hitchcock my favorite director), because he was so ahead of his literary time.

Day 3: Favorite TV Show

2010-06-07T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 3: Favorite TV Show

Bravo's 'Real Housewives'

I can't help that I'm hooked, but this show is just too good to be true. I know that it's scripted to an extent, and not true "reality tv," but some of this drama is just too much to pass up! I'll admit I was hooked from the beginning with the Real Housewives of OC. It took me some time to get accustomed to New York (their first season wasn't terribly exciting), and before you know it, I couldn't get enough of OC, NYC, Atlanta, and of course, New Jersey.

Day 2: Favorite Movie

2010-06-05T00:00:00.000-07:00

Day 2 of the 30 Day Challenge: Favorite Movie

Alfred Hitchcock's 'Vertigo'

This movie has been a favorite of mine for many years - since being introduced to it while taking a film course at the beginning of College. A romantic love story intertwined with conflict (both internal and external) set in 1940s San Francisco. It's a movie that was far ahead of it's time, and one that never gets old.

Qualms with Christianity continued...

2010-06-04T00:00:00.000-07:00

Even though this is my blog and I can write about whatever I feel like, I in no way, shape, or form intend on making this blog a platform for heated religious debates. Everyone is free to make their own choices and form their own beliefs; especially here in the US where it's a free country. I love that about our world, the diversity is what keeps life interesting.

You may have read my earlier post about my religious background and the overall struggle I had gone through while coming to terms with my own individuality. Many people who claimed to be such good "Christians," judged me harshly... as if my sins were much worse than theirs. Whatever the case, I decided to take the plunge by going back to Church. I had missed it, and was ready to go back. I was invited to a service on the Eastside which many had recommended, so I went to check it out. Little did I know, my facebook update stating my intentions would become such a heated ordeal. Check it out:

So there you have it. In case you didn't notice, I was bashed by a Morman. A Morman FAMILY MEMBER. Through blood he is my second cousin, but through reality he is in no way remotely related to me. I even sent him a message after all of this had gone down about how disappointed I was in him, and how I would never consider him family after what he had done to me. Does anybody else not see his judgment here? He's completely preaching about how I'm destined for hell because of my choices, but he's "clean" and ready for heaven. If that isn't the pot calling the kettle black, then I really don't know what is.

I could keep going off on this, but there really isn't a point. I respect his decision for choosing the LDS faith, but I don't respect him for the way he so rudely scolded me via my facebook. I don't respect him for being so judgmental, condescending, and assuming so much about me. This is just one small example of the years of ridicule I've gone through while trying to maintain a relationship with Jesus Christ while also coming to terms with being Gay. Enough is enough!

Day 1: Favorite Song

2010-06-03T00:00:00.000-07:00

Naturally, I don't have just ONE favorite song - but quite a few. Truly, my #1 Favorite song is constantly revolving; I continue to have a playlist of favorites but my top fave always changes. I gotta keep things fresh, right?!

My current favorite (again, thanks to my tv obsession) Pussycat Dolls - Top of the World

Who out there can tell me that this song doesn't make them want to shake it, if even just a little bit?! Hopefully by now you guys have realized that I love to shake it (even if crutches are required).

30 Day Challenge - can I do this?

2010-05-31T00:00:00.000-07:00

During my daily reads I discovered a challenge making its way across the blogosphere. The 30 Day Challenge. Each day I'm supposed to divulge some information about myself - for 30 days straight. Well, since I don't rarely take the straightest past, I'm going to attempt this challenge in longer than 30 days.

Here's what you can look forward to!

Day 01 — Your favorite song

Day 02 — Your favorite movie

Day 03 — Your favorite television program

Day 04 — Your favorite book

Day 05 — Your favorite quote

Day 06 — Whatever tickles your fancy

Day 07 — A photo that makes you happy

Day 08 — A photo that makes you angry/sad

Day 09 — A photo you took

Day 10 — A photo of you taken over ten years ago

Day 11 — A photo of you taken recently

Day 12 — Whatever tickles your fancy

Day 13 — A fictional book

Day 14 — A non-fictional book

Day 15 — A fanfic

Day 16 — A song that makes you cry (or nearly)

Day 17 — An art piece (painting, drawing, sculpture, etc.)

Day 18 — Whatever tickles your fancy

Day 19 — A talent of yours

Day 20 — A hobby of yours

Day 21 — A recipe

Day 22 — A website

Day 23 — A YouTube video

Day 24 — Whatever tickles your fancy

Day 25 — Your day, in great detail

Day 26 — Your week, in great detail

Day 27 — This month, in great detail

Day 28 — This year, in great detail

Day 29 — Hopes, dreams and plans for the next 365 days

Day 30 — Whatever tickles your fancy

Get ready for some excitement!

Closet Confessions: Guilty for Guidos

2010-05-27T21:27:00.000-07:00

Okay, so I realize that this post will spur a lot of judgment. A LOT. But I can't resist telling you all about a dirty little secret I have. You can thank this all because of my obsession to trash tv, and even though I've written about my general distaste for this group of greased up shore-goers, I must admit... I have a crush on a guido.

I can't believe I just said that, but it's true. HOWEVER; you must know that it's just a tv crush, not a damn thing I'd ever entertain/seek out/obsess about. Let me introduce my crush before I go any further...

It's Pauly D from Jersey Shore

SO, before you go on hating me... I just have to say that I find Pauley D to be gorgeous WITH exceptions. I hate how his hair takes atleast 30 minutes to prepare (the hair gel and blowout can go), nor do I like his outfit choices (Ed Hardy and Christian Audigier are NOT haute couture), and to be completely honest, I'm not even a huge fan of his gigantic Italy tattoo across his back side. I could go on about my dislikes BUT that would defeat the purpose of the post.

What I DO like about Pauly D: He is somewhat superficial, which means he's very well tended to. Translation: he's got a great tan, a worked out body, and you know he's taking care of his body where care needs to be. I also like that he's a DJ (though I'm really not sure whether he's good or not, but my imagination likes to think he is), and, well, it doesn't hurt that he loves to have a good time.

Oh yeah... he's got a pretty cute face if I do say so. But enough of my guilty confessions, that's all I'm going to say!

I can't believe I just admitted this...

365 Days

2010-05-24T00:00:00.000-07:00

Moment of honesty
Someone's gotta take the lead tonight
Whose it gonna be?
I'm gonna sit right here
And tell you all that comes to me
If you have something to say
You should say it right now
(You should say it right now)

You ready?

You give me a feeling that I never felt before
And I deserve it, I think I deserve it
(I deserve it, I think it deserve it..Let it go)
It's becoming something that's impossible to ignore
And I can't take it
(I can't take it)

I was wondering maybe
Could I make you my baby
If we do the unthinkable would it make us look crazy
If you ask me I'm ready
(I'm ready, I'm ready)
If you ask me I'm ready
(I'm ready, I'm ready)

I know you once said to me
"This is exactly how it should feel when it's meant to be"
Time is only wasting so why wait for eventually?
If we gon' do something 'bout it
We should do it right now
(We should do it right now)

Bay, uh

You give me a feeling that I never felt before
And I deserve it, I know I deserve it
(I deserve it, I know I deserve it. Let it go)
Its becoming something that's impossible to ignore
It's what we make it
(It's what we make it)

I was wondering maybe
Could I make you my baby
If we do the unthinkable would it make us look crazy
Or would it be so beautiful either way I'm sayin'
If you ask me I'm ready
(I'm ready I'm ready)
If you ask me I'm ready
(I'm ready)

Yeah, sing...

Why give up before we try
Feel the lows before the highs
Clip our wings before we fly away
I can't say I came prepared
I'm suspended in the air
Won't you come be in the sky with me

I was wondering maybe
Could I make you my baby
If we do the unthinkable would it make us look crazy
Or would it be so beautiful either way I'm sayin'
If you ask me I'm ready
(I'm ready, I'm ready)
If you ask me I'm ready
(I'm ready, I'm ready)

Today marks our 1 Year Anniversary.

Who would've ever thought we'd be together? Two individuals with completely different lives coming together through a chance encounter. Two individuals in entirely different stages of their lives, yet combining the two making a perfect unison.

This has been one of the most wonderful years of my life. Needless to say there have been extreme highs and lows we've experienced together, but I wouldn't dare ask for different. You have been my best friend, partner, lover, nurse, caretaker, therapist, traveling buddy, entertainer; you have done so much for me and have become so important in my life that I couldn't imagine a world without you.

You are so so very special to me, words cannot even describe the amount of love I have for you. I am so thankful to have you by my side, and I look forward to our future together.

Happy Anniversary.

I love you.

Bicycles + Fashion = ?

2010-05-20T00:00:00.000-07:00

Source: Critical Mass

Can I pull off his style?

I ask that not because I wonder if I can pull off the color yellow, the skinny tie, nor the scrumptious camel overcoat. I ask because I wonder if I can pull off...

the bicycle.

Having been forced to virtual dormancy through my injury I keep dreaming about all of the things I want to do but simply can't. Aside from walking, the next biggest activity I am dying to pick back up once again is bicycling.

Seattle is a fairly bicycle-friendly city. Many people use this as their primary modes of transportation (I should know, my apartment is just off a major bike-path), so why can't I pick it back up again? I'm not looking to become a cycling-fiend (you will not see me wearing spandex en-route to work), but I'd really love to enjoy this city through a different perspective. A different, yet fashionable, perspective.

Source: Three in a Crowd

Of all these pictures I've found, not one seem to resemble the cyclist I'm used to seeing in Seattle. The art of fashion while cycling seems to be lost in this city, yet I'm willing to take a chance. I wonder though, will the way I dress be affected by my mode of transportation? Or can I seemingly adapt without little to no change?

Source: The Sartorialist

These Dandy's have managed to keep their fashionable selves in tact while cycling, so it can't be that difficult, right? I guess there is no point in discussing it til we're blue in the faces, it's really something that has to be tried. For now I'll continue to seek out the perfect cruiser and hopefully be on in the road in a matter of time.

Source: The Sartorialist

If she can cycle in heels, then anything is possible!

Is there no compassion?

2010-05-18T00:00:00.000-07:00

It's week 6 of my recovery, I can't believe it's already been more than a month since that hellish evening. I'm back to work and slowly getting back into my normal routines; I'm off of my pain meds and I'm virtually done from my battery of tests and exams, which is a very positive sign. The downside is that I'm still stuck on crutches, and will be so for 6 more weeks (but let's hope for positive news next Dr's visit!)

Needless to I've learned a lot about myself and others around me while hobbling around on these blasted aluminum supports. I've also learned how difficult life is when injured, how easy we take for granted the smallest of details from day to day.

For instance, I've become accustomed to not using my left leg and balancing on one foot for long periods of time, while locking opposite knee cap into a right angle (one could call me a human flamingo, minus the pink feathers). I've learned how to walk by using my upper body (can we talk about how sore my arms and shoulders have been), and I've also learned the art of opening doors, using stairs, escalators and balancing on crutches as if my life depended on it (well, because it does). I will admit, some of my proudest crutch skills I've gained are the art of bolting (ie. to make the crosswalk before it turns red), hanging clothing from my crutches (for work), and dancing with my crutches (I need some humor here!)

While navigating the Emerald City on crutches I've also learned just how shocking society can be. For the most part virtually everyone has been really helpful through this process. Most people hold doors open for me, my close friends help carry my lunch to my table, my coffee to my desk, or my garbage to the trash. Many people ask how I'm doing, how I was injured, and have a genuine reaction and sense of sympathy when I state I broke my hip.

Surprisingly enough I've also experienced the exact opposite. Doors have been closed in front of me, eyes have been rolled, and people have made very clear through their body language how much of an inconvenience I am being around them. I kid you not, I'll never forget the dirty looks I got at H&M for having to break up the line of the fitting room to reach the elevator, or the look of death when I had to say "excuse me," in hopes that the broad would put down her floral cardigan so that I could squeeze past her. I've also had people ask about my injury, and then completely turn their attention the moment I respond, as if they were asking out of requirement. Equally as disturbing to me are the responses I've gotten when I state I've broken my hip: a few times people have acted unphased, as if my broken him was the equivalent of a sprained pinky.

Lastly, on my rant of negativity many people (in an attempt to be humorous) have asked how said hip broke, and when stated that I broke it while walking my dog they fire back with "What kind of dog do you have? A CHIHUAHUA?!"

I say these things not because I'm looking for sympathy, or because I want people to be nice. I'm simply ranting because I'm so baffled by how nasty people can act! Do people really get through life without having any type of respect toward their disabled peers? Was there not some sort of sensitivity training in grade school?

So please, if you see someone who may be struggling, simply hold the door open for them or offer to push their floor on the elevator; you'd truly be surprised at how these little random acts of kindness will make that person feel. And trust me, if you're annoyed that they're interrupting your life with their crutches, you can sure as hell believe that they feel the same way. I mean really, who really wants to spend life on crutches?!

Links á la Mode: May 13th

2010-05-16T13:10:00.000-07:00

Would you believe it? Emerald Dandy was featured this week on Independent Fashion Bloggers!

Beauty is Truth

Edited by Thom Wong

Beauty is truth and truth is beauty, but what happens when fashion enters the mix? Several of this week’s links tackle this thorny question with gusto, teasing out the various layers of meaning behind the term beauty and what it means to feel or be beautiful. Ethics and the material nature of style emerged as another dominant theme. The Laundry Narrative wonders if she can enjoy fashion blogging without dealing with the BIG ISSUES. Then there are longer form posts where I felt the writers stretched their narrative legs, some new voices in the game who could use your attention, and, since this is still about fashion, some lovely outfit pics of girls on bikes. Finally I’ve included the only two men who bothered to post (seriously, what up men). And meggings – nooooo!!!!!

Collage images via: Brachman’s Sparrow, évoluer, The Sunday Best, and Oranges and Apples

Links à la Mode : May 13

365 Fashion Rehab – Notes from the closet: Day 357! Building better future buying habits by way of a major wardrobe investigation.
39th and Broadway – The Fall of Designer Denim.
Bachman's Sparrow – Saturday Advice column: develop your personal style into something amazing by learning how to take risks and not dress for others.
Chrissy Styles – I create an outfit inspired by a painting. This time one by Luc Tuymans:
D e f i n i n g B e a u t y – Pass it On – What do you do with clothes you don’t want?
DailyDivaDish – True Cost of Disposable Fashion: You may be paying more than you realize.
Debutante Clothing – Are you Lying? Why Do You Wear Vintage? A response to 5 Lies Women Tell About Vintage Dresses.
Emerald Dandy – Meggings: Meant to be?
Evoluer – 7 girls : 7 bicycles : 7 unique & adorable outfits
Independent Fashion Bloggers – Finance & the Fashion Blogger: Ignore-ance
Journey to Fashion – From Undergrad Slob to Graduate Fashionista? An introduction to my quest for fashion.
Missemmamm – How the internet has changed & woman are now more empowered.
Oranges and Apples – On Beauty.
Retro Chick – Are you ethically fashionable or fashionably ethical?
Return to Sender – What do you do when your old insecurities rear their ugly heads?
Shrimp Salad Circus – Ten things to smile about right this very second.
Style on a String – The Insatiability for Logos, not Luxury.
The Coveted – The Coveted launches a new blog dedicated to real women wearing denim.
The Laundry Narrative – Fighting the urge to justify criticism of fashion blogging as superficial, anti-feminist, and materialistic.
The Sunday Best – The Best Time of the Year for Menswear
The Thrifty Poet – How to Feel Beautiful.

To Ink or not to Ink?

2010-05-14T00:00:00.000-07:00

Though I am admittedly obsessed with virtually all things fashion, one thing that's been heavily on my mind as of late is something that isn't necessarily about "fashion" but style persay: inking up. As of now, I am a completely blank slate; no piercings or tattoos, but it's something I'm starting to consider. The only difference with using tattoo as part of ones style (as opposed to clothing) is the level of permanence. Style can be changed so easily with clothing; all it takes is the change of a shirt. A tattoo is permanent, and has to be something that can never go out of style, or get tiring for that matter.

There are so many factors when it comes to deciding on a tattoo. What would you like on your body for the rest of your life? Where would you like it to be? Lots of thought needs to be involved so that you're not living with a regretful tat the rest of your life.

Arms: one of the most popular place to ink up

If I looked as good as him I'd consider my arms, but I could see myself getting tired of it pretty quickly.

For men, the most popular places to tattoo are the chest, back, and arms. As I see it, I want my tattoo to be more discreet, not something that everyone can see all of the time. I'm partial to the idea of my upper back so that you wont see my tattoo unless the shirt comes off. Depending on the size, I'd consider my arm, but only if its small (and potentially able to be hidden under my watch if I needed or desired). I don't like the idea of having my tattoo visible for stylistic sake, I'd find myself wanting to some how accessorize or color coordinate to my tattoo if it were in plain view.*

*Okay, maybe I'm exaggerating just a little... but I could see myself obsessing about it*

I like the upper back, do you?

Okay, so let's say I've got my placement down. The next issue (which is more important in my book) is WHAT will my design be? This is my biggest struggle, since I have yet to find something I love enough to mark on me for a lifetime. I have some ideas, but I'm not completely set. I've researched some pictures of tattoo ideas that I'm partial to; I'd love to hear your opinions.

I love the idea of a getting a tattoo with the Seattle skyline. These two provide some examples, though I I'd want mine to be very classic, clean, and not nearly as large as these. I love the idea of Seattle as my tattoo since this is home to me. I may not always live here but Seattle is, and always will be home. What a better way to have a piece of home with you forever.

Another option is my astrological sign. It's simple, it can be unique, and it's something that describes who I am. The cons to this idea: I'm not hugely versed in astrology, I only follow it on occasion and more or less for entertainment. I'm also not a huge fish fan, so why would I want to tattoo myself with something I don't particularly enjoy?

Last but not least, I'm slightly into the idea of the "I heart mom" tattoo. As campy as it may seem, I think it would be really nice to have a tattoo similar to the one at left, honoring my mom and my dad. I love them dearly, and I like the idea of honoring them with permanent art on my body. Call me crazy if you will, this is how I feel.

Who knows if and when I'll ever get a tattoo. I can honestly say I'm much more curious about it now more than I have ever been. The idea of inking up is new to me, but as much as I love expressing my style through clothing, I'm beginning to like the idea of using a tattoo as part of my style as well.

Emerald Dandy wants to know: What are you thoughts on tattoos? Love em/hate em? Have one?

AllSaints Spitalfields coming to Seattle

2010-05-12T00:00:00.000-07:00

As I was sorting through my email yesterday I came across a press release regarding the opening of a new store coming to Downtown Seattle. While reading this email I didn't think too much of it since I didn't recognize the name, though out of curiosity I did some research and have to admit I'm looking forward to the store opening Q4 of this year.

AllSaints harks from the UK and is really something else. Many of the pieces remind me of Rick Owens, but without the obscene pricepoint. The pieces appear to be incredibly wearable and tends to border more on a timeless trend; pieces that are current but can certainly carry on for many seasons to come.

Take a look at their website and be sure to let me know what you think. I've chosen my favorite pieces and posted them below. Stores that come to Seattle tend to get a more "conservative" mix than those in NYC or LA, lets hope that this doesn't happen with AllSaints.

Lusting Obsession: I think I'm dating this sweater...

2010-05-10T00:00:00.000-07:00

Does this sweater look familiar? It should, since I've raved about it before...

It's Nicholas K!

Just this weekend I managed to cross the water over to the Eastside, making my way to The Bravern which is home to DNA2050, the only store in the state of Washington to carry Nicholas K for men. Needless to say the assortment wasn't huge, but enough for me to drool just a bit. Out of the three pieces still available in my size, this sweater made me swoon!

Of course I had to try it on, though I can't decide if it was a good idea or not. Now I can't get this damn sweater off of my mind! Were it not for my pending disability check, my hospital bills, or my debt overall, I would've walked out the door with a new Nicholas K purchase faster than white on rice.

You guys have no idea how obsessed I've become over Nicholas K! This sweater was impeccable. Such a brilliant blue in the softest fabric, with really extraordinary details. Built in leather cuffs on each arm, and a great oversized (almost) cowel neck with additional leather detailing. There is so much to love about this!

So I need to know, boys and girls: Would you agree with me? Should this be my next purchase? Or is my head in the clouds?

Image Source: Nicholas K

Meggings: Meant to be?

2010-05-08T00:00:00.000-07:00

Chances are you've heard of this "trend," men wearing tights, leggings, or "meggings." Truth be told, you might be flabergasted by the idea, wondering what an atrocity that must look like. Perhaps when you think about the idea of men in leggings you envision your doctor, your priest, or your accountant wearing tights; clearly that idea isn't pretty. I've seen this trend done many ways over the past few years (though truly few and far between), and recently while I was getting my daily dose of The Sartorialist I came across this picture which I haven't been able to remove from my mind.

Source: The Sartorialist

I really believe that Scott captured a man with great style in this photo. I also believe that men wearing leggings isn't necessarily a idea, HOWEVER, not every man should think they can. Of course style is completely subjective, but I could only see men with slim, waif-like builds with an edgier fashion sense being able to pull this off. I also see leggings paired back with an oversized blazer, cardigan, or t (depending on if you're wanting to go dressy, preppy, or edgy), and worn with sandals or stylish brogues.

I've scoped out some examples of men in leggings. You'll note that Givenchy is very prevalent throughout many of the pics, as Ricardo Tisci has made the megging practically a staple in his collections. Take a peak - I picked some good and some bad, so you can have an idea of what I mean. I must admit, I'd someday like to gather the nerves to try wearing leggings, but I dont think someone with legs as thick as mine should really venture into this world...

Source: justjudyjudyjudy

Would you consider this good or bad? I'm just not sure about the ripped leggings...

Source: Unmanly

And Russell Brand? I kinda like this, primarily cause he looks like a bad ass.

Source: NYMag
Okay, so these examples are very avant garde. Check out the link to NYMag, who wrote an article about this phenomenon back in 2008.

And then we move on to Givenchy. More and more I'm finding myself in love with Givenchy's aesthetic, almost as much as I love Balenciaga!

Lastly, a look that I quite enjoy (or maybe it's just the man wearing it?!)

Emerald Dandy wants to know: Yay or nay to meggings?

OBSESSION: Zara

2010-05-02T00:00:00.000-07:00

I've been a fan of Zara for nearly 8 years now, after first discovering them on my vacation in Spain. Trend forward without breaking the bank, I thought it was absolutely incredible! Unfortunately for me trying to get my hands on additional Zara pieces has been difficult.

See, the nearest Zara is about 150 miles and one country away. I can't just pop in to my nearest Zara and see the latest offerings; I instead have to make a day (or weekend) trip out of it. When I've done this in the past, I've come up unsuccessful everytime. Whether it be Vancouver, Manhattan, or San Francisco, I have come up empty handed. And of course, I can't get my favorite Zara pieces online (since they're late to the e-commerce game), but I can at least continue to lust over them, right?

After perusing their website, I've come across many items causing me to consider packing up my crutches and making my way across the border in hopes of spending my hard earned disability on the pieces i can hopefully find. Let me know what you think!

More after the jump with witty commentary...

Emerald Dandy wants to know your thoughts: Do you love?

Anybody want to join me for a trip to VanCity? Or better yet, ZARA, will you open a store in Seattle for crying out loud?!

NicholasK noticed me!

2010-04-30T00:00:00.000-07:00

Check this out - my blog got some attention!!

Check out the NicholasK blog! The blog is actually quite inspirational - I recommend you check it out.

The Dr's Update

2010-04-29T10:28:00.000-07:00

Went to the Doc yesterday for my checkup. With the visit came good news and bad.

Let's start with the good:

My injury is healing impeccably well. Normally injuries of my caliber would require full hip replacements (yes, I said full hip) but luckily I was able to walk away with 3 screws instead. It's positive news hearing that everything is healing quite nicely.

The bad news:

Crutches are required for 8 more weeks. 8! I've already been using a combination of crutches/walker for 4 weeks as it is, and was initially led to believe I'd be done by Week 6 and transitioning to a cane. No, no, no. I have 8 more weeks. The Doc wants me on crutches for 12 weeks in total. Yikes! Furthermore, it looks like my leg wont be fully operable (ie. exercise ready) for 6 months. This is going to be a difficult summer for me...

Just the Dandy's luck, we'll probably have the best summer Seattle has ever seen this year. Wait for it; I'm calling it right now!

But with all of this comes the silver lining: I'm still alive, AND thanks to my crutch usage my arms, back, and chest are starting to become quite muscular :-)

Remember when?

2010-04-26T00:00:00.000-07:00

Yeah, me neither...

BUT, I felt the urge to post this video as it caused me to wax nostalgia over that other city I love:

San Francisco

If you know me, you know how I hope to some day call the Bay Area home. I can't put my finger on it, but there are so many different elements to that city which draw me to it. I think the biggest thing that attracts me to San Fran is that I still feel a little bit like I'm in Seattle, but on a larger, more grown up scale.

I realize that I didn't really expand upon my most recent trip. Here are some of my highlights:

-Chace and I stayed at the Ritz Carlton. This was my first 5-Star hotel stay! While I was impressed, I wasn't blown away. The Ritz in San Fran is a completely remodeled, beautiful building on Nob Hill (just outside the California Line). It was a great location for us primarily because it required us to get some serious exercise in (those hills in San Fran can definitely work the calves and glutes). What also really worked to our favor was being so close to Chinatown and North Beach, two neighborhoods great for some good eats.

-I had my first spa experience. I've never had a professional massage prior to this trip. Add a facial and a pedicure to the mix and I was in heaven. My only problem, I was getting over a sinus infection which stuffed me up, making it nearly impossible to breathe.

-Drinks at the Top of the Mark. So maybe the drinks were slightly overpriced and average... but the view! Call me sappy, but it made me melt. I've wanted to go there for so many years but always ran out of time. As we were leaving couples started waltzing on the dance floor, and I practically melted. It was very old world San Fran meets modern 2010.

-Day trip to Wine Country. We went to an actual castle (Castello di Amorosa) which was built to replicate an Italian winery and was absolutely beautiful. BEAUTIFUL. There were sheep's grazing, chicken's roaming around, and with the wonderful weather, it was a truly enjoyable experience (not including the average, lackluster wine). Cakebread Winery was also on the agenda, and the personal tour we had with the wine tasting was not only informational, but oh so delicious!

-Wonderful weather the entire time. Averaged sunny and 70 every single day. The fashionisto in me was NOT prepared for this! I had planned on decent weather with haze and fog (a la the usual San Francisco weather), so I had to get crafty and re-configure my wardrobe.

-North Beach, possibly one of my favorite neighborhoods in the city. A great Italian restaurant (a literal mom and pop) was our first dinner stop. While walking through the neighborhood we stumbled across a coffee shop which was absolutely surreal. It was the later evening (maybe 9ish or so), and the shop was buzzing with friendly locals. The tables outside were filled with people playing cards, drinking wine, and jammin out on their guitars and drums. It felt like a tight-knit community, and I couldn't love it more if I tried.

-Continuing our walk through North Beach we encountered a somewhat hidden viewpoint. After hopping the fence to said viewpoint, we were welcomed with a panaromic view overlooking the Bay. Truly romantic.

-Experiencing both the Haight District in all its glory. I was overwhelmed by the amount of vintage stores along Haight Street (but left unsuccessful... I'm kicking myself for not picking up a vintage Ralph Lauren faux fur vest or a teal Members Only jacket). We also had the pleasure of enjoying Cha Cha Cha, a cuban restaurant with some of the best Sangria I've ever had.

-Hippie Hill. Completely surreal. A local had recommended we check it out, so we went for it. We found ourselves wandering over to Golden Gate park and finding our way to Hippie Hill by listening to the sound of the drums (I shit you not). Upon emerging from a tunnel, there they were: hundreds of people enjoying the sunny Saturday afternoon. About 50 people were in a drum circle, drumming away, while hundreds sat around enjoying the experience. It was a trip, and I highly recommend checking it out.

San Francisco, here's to hopefully being able to call you home someday soon. Until we meet again...

Almost halfway there...

2010-04-24T00:00:00.000-07:00

I'm nearing the end of my 3rd week on disability (halfway done!), and let's just say that I'm ready to fast-forward. I probably could be a little more productive than I am, but maneuvering through life with a walker or crutches is quite tiring. Here's what a junior geriatric such as myself has been up to:

-I've watched more television than should be allowed by law. Thanks to my hospital stay I embarrassingly become addicted to Jerry Springer (this is what I get when I'm stuck in a hospital bed with a tv that has 10 channels). I am blown away this show is still on! It's so scripted it hurts, which makes it borderline enjoyable. Thankfully, I've managed to start weaning myself off of this nasty habit.

-Netflix has become my bestfriend. Streaming Netflix has become my bestfriend even more so. Thank you Netflix, for streaming movies and tv through my Wii! The only downside: I've been making an effort to watch documentaries, indi flicks, and even some gay & lesbian cinema. Truth be told, virtually everything I've watched has been pretty disappointing. Maybe that's the tactic of Netflix... to stream all thats lame. Regardless, I'll continue to give it a shot (I don't have much else to do!)

-I have been writing like you wouldn't believe. As I'm writing this post, I already have 5 additional posts scheduled... that isn't like me! I've also been writing in my journal (I received quite a few for my birthday), and will soon make it a point to get them loaded on here.

-I've also been reading. One book down, and multiple magazines. Thanks to Jesse James cheating on Sandra just before my hospital visit, I've managed to learn quite a bit about their life.

-Field trips outside of the apartment have been taxing. I will say this: thanks to my injury, my crutch usage has allowed my arm and back muscles to grow (though I'm not quite seeing it). Thankfully my friends and family have been so generous in helping me out through all of this.

I have 3 more weeks to go; I'm going to do my best to stay busy.

-I'm working on getting the nerve up to go to my gym in the building and do some weight lifting... sitting around is not working in my favor.

-The DIY guy in me is coming out. I've got some minor sewing I need to do, and some ambitious projects in mind. Sequins, studs, and tie dye... three different projects I'm looking to get done (and of course, I'll make sure to document my projects).

Here's to hoping these 3 weeks fly by!

OBSESSION: Nicholas K

2010-04-22T00:00:00.000-07:00

So here we are again. On the hunt for deliciously fashionable finds to help pass the time (and fuel my passion of course), and yet again another designer unattainable to me. I've brought you designers I dare to dream of, and designers I can't wait to get my hands on, and I've also brought you designers that I can't seem to find if my life depended on it (read: Smalto). Here comes another current obsession of mine, perhaps an even bigger obsession because I can't get my hands on it!

Introducing: Nicholas K. Thank you again to The Fashionisto I've been introduced to a designer who I can completely relate to. Take a look for yourself at the lookbook to this SS'10 collection, you may find yourself agreeing with me! In my perspective this entire collection is virtually wearably chic for day-to-day. Nicholas K has a touch of trend mixed with enough sensibility to allow each of these pieces to transition into upcoming seasons.

I've incorporated my favorite pieces for both men and women, take a look! You may find yourself lusting over the pieces much like I have. Take note: Nicholas K is difficult to find (unless you're in a fashion capital). Here in Seattle only 2 boutiques carry the line (and primarily for women; good luck if you're a guy) and online offerings are very slim.

More photos after the jump

Photos Courtesy of: Nicholas K

Learn more about Nicholas K here

Visit The Fashionisto here

Emerald Dandy wants to know: What do you think?

I dont know about you, but I'm crossing my fingers that I'll be able to snag myself a few pieces this season. Here's to hoping!

OBSESSION: Balenciaga Part 2

2010-04-20T00:00:00.000-07:00

Being couped up at the apartment has left me daydreaming almost incessantly. Let me just say that as of now, if I could be in total control of my life and destiny, my roadmap would be crystal clear (HD clear to be precise).

At any rate, one thing that keeps coming back to haunt me is my LOVE for Balenciaga. While I'd love to wear Balenciaga menswear (my checkbook would go nuts), I've found myself lusting on something slightly more practical. Oh hell, who am I kidding, it's not practical, but I freaking love it!

You've seen it before, but feast your eyes on this beautiful Balenciaga 'Oversized Envelope' Clutch. I swoon everytime I see it. Don't judge me.

Here's the deal: we all know I'm obsessed with Balenciaga, so why not get something that I'll use all the time? I've been on the market for a folder/clutch type situation for quite some time, and nothing has been able to compare to this. There are so many times when I'm at work or out and and about and I need to carry more than what my wallet allows (ie. keys, credit cards, id, cell phone), and I don't necessarily love the pockets of my pants bulging (which will continue to be a problem until cargo pants are back on trend). Yet at the same time, I don't want to have to carry around my messenger... so why not have a suitable in-between option?

It's very clear how in love I am with this, since I could fight my case on wanting to own this to the death! SO, if you're feeling incredibly generous there are only a few of these left in the world, and yours truly would be ever so appreciative!

Christianity? Hardly

2010-04-18T00:00:00.000-07:00

Sometimes things are better left unsaid: or even unknown. It’s thanks to social networking and the explosion of Myspace, Facebook, and Twitter that I’ve been able to learn about things that I shouldn’t have (or possibly don’t want or need to), and has shown me the true colors of many people. Through this wave of expanding communication I’ve been able to see into the lives of my friends and acquaintances more closely (without even really trying), and has brought me to experience some very painful and harsh realities.

In years prior I had been immersed in the Church. I had grown up a Christmas & Easter Catholic but was introduced to Christianity during my early years of high school. With this introduction brought me a plethora of new friends who I absolutely adored. Each one of them had such a positive outlook on life, always seemed to have a smile on their faces, and came from the picture-perfect family. To say the least, I was envious and aimed to be just like them.

Looking back I had always considered my years in high school to be my glory years. I had it all (or at least I felt like it), and I owed it all to my new discovery of Christianity and the top-notch friends that came with it. The surroundings in my life made it so easy to enjoy everything day to day, and allowed me to forget about the struggles and the pain that I probably should have dealt with. I didn’t care; I was on Cloud 9 and planned on staying there as long as I could.

Then came graduation. The dream was about to end and I was in complete denial. We were all going our separate ways; interestingly enough I was one of the only ones not going to a Christian College. I didn’t want to, I wanted to get out and explore, but what I didn’t realize were the repercussions of what this would do to me in my “circle of friends.”

Soon enough the contact started to end. My friends suddenly thought I was living a constant, sinful struggle, and I felt like they all assumed I was on an express train to Hell. Part of me was oblivious to this drop in communication. Though I had tried to remain in contact with my friends, I always just assumed they were busy and things would get better. Well, things never got better. Suddenly my picture perfect life with my A+ friends had dissipated.

It’s been years since this started to happen, but because I was so overwhelmed with the goings on in my life I didn’t ever have a chance to cope. I was able to push it to the side until I started to see their lives change, all thanks to social networking. One by one they were starting to graduate and find jobs, get engaged and even married; apparently my invitation kept getting “lost” in the mail.

Only recently was I recently given the proverbial blow to the head. My best friend in high school was getting married in less than a month, and I had absolutely no part in it whatsoever. I had tried to keep our friendship going strong, but it was clear there were forces that wouldn’t allow that to happen. Looking back and seeing that I wasn’t invited to 3 of my closest friends weddings made me realize, they’re clearly not my close friends. It’s also made me realize what hurtful hypocrites I had surrounded myself with in my earlier years.

I don’t consider myself to be angelic, not in any way, shape, or form. I realize that I’ve made choices that aren’t “agreeable” to Christianity, and that I am a full-blown sinner. But last time I checked we were all born that way, so I find it interesting that my sin’s somehow make me a lesser person. It’s interesting that they can taut themselves as “Jesus Lovers” but can so easily dismiss someone for being “different” from them.

Through experiences like these it makes it very difficult for me to embrace religion and spirituality. Why would I want to give my life to Christianity when this very same religion has put me through so much pain? Why would I want to embrace it when some of my best friends could so quickly turn away from me? Is it me or could it possibly be them?

It’s situations such as these that make me really wonder, could these so called friends of mine really be Christian? Do they really embrace the life of Christianity? In my mind, the answer is a definite Hell No.

Emerald Dandy wants to know your thoughts: Do you embrace Religion or Spirituality? Have you experienced a situation like this? What did you do?

Dandy note - I can't apologize if this has offended. While I do have friends that have stuck through with me through thick and thin, there are certainly a few that quickly jumped ship.

Urbane: food worth eating?

2010-04-16T00:00:00.000-07:00

Urbane's interior

It's been quite some time since I've written about my foodie experiences, and really thought it fair to do a post on Urbane, located on the corner of 8th & Olive in the Hyatt-Olive8 Building. I've been here a few times, and have found myself planning happy hours or brunch dates at this somewhat new restaurant.

Urbane is taking part in the farm to table movement, and sources the majority of their ingredients within a 200 mile radius (that feels more like a 'lax' farm to table, but at least they're trying!) By taking part in this movement, the menu changes somewhat frequently which always keeps you wanting more.

What draws me to Urbane are a few things. First off is the interior; it is so clean and modern and the background music is just right. Food wise I've been a few times: I'm admittedly a big fan of happy hour. The prices are more than reasonable, the drink specials are great (though I typically gravitate toward the wine offering). The happy hour portions are just right, which is refreshing since many happy hour locales tend to gyp you on the food.

I've also found myself enjoying Urbane for Sunday brunch. What I've discovered about Seattle is that we all love brunch, so getting a table for Sunday brunch can be somewhat of a chore. Rest assured this isn't usually the case at Urbane; getting a table has never been a problem. The one downfall about brunch: the food isn't to die for. It's good, but not great. I've not been overwhelmed, nor have I been underwhelmed. Truth be told, I've just been whelmed.

The good thing is, the menu is consistently changing, so my opinion could change each time I go!

If you haven't been, I recommend that you do. Who knows, maybe I'll see you there for happy hour!

A to Z on me

2010-04-14T00:00:00.000-07:00

I stumbled across this little survey and decided to fill it out to hold you over in between my posts. I will say that one of the positives to being stuck at home on disability is the amount of free time I've had, and the amount of time I've been able to invest in my writing.

Here goes!

A - Age: 2X – you don’t need to know that ;-)

B - Bed size: A bed fit for a Queen

C - Chore you hate: Cleaning the bathroom. Can’t it clean itself?

D - Dog's name: Max

E - Essential start your day item: Coffee with cream and sugar

F - Favorite color: Blue (Klein Blue a la McQueen)

G - Gold or Silver or Platinum: Can’t I mix my metals? I tend to migrate toward Silver.

H - Height: 6’1”

I - Interesting fact about yourself:

J - Jewelry you wear every day: Ring from Tiffany’s, a lovely lovely gift from Chace

K - Kids: Erm, not at this time

L - Living arrangements: Seattle, SLU to be more precise. A lovely industrial-esque apartment with 15 ft ceilings, floor to ceiling windows, exposed pipes, a killer patio, and an even better rooftop

M - Mom's name: Dawn

N - Nickname: Tweeds, Tweedy-pie

O - Overnight hospital stay other than birth: Two weeks ago. Three days, fractured hip. Note: this is the first bone I have ever broken. EVER.

P - Pet peeve: Cliffhanging… don’t you dare leave me hanging!

Q - Quote: “Fashion fades, style is eternal.” Yves Saint Laurent

R - Right or left handed: Left

S - Siblings: 1 half sister, 2 half brothers

T - Time you wake up: At this point in time I have no set time to wakeup (this whole being home on disability thing is not as relaxing as one would thing)

U - Underwear: Always, and always quite sassy ;-) You never know when you’ll need to strip down to your undies!

V - Vegetable you dislike: Mushrooms and olives. Ick.

W - Ways you run late: Oversleeping… but even then I tend to make it practically on time.

X - X-rays you've had: Teeth (haven’t we all?) and most recently, my hip

Y - Yummy food you make: Sausage in a snuggie ;-)

Z - Zoo favorite: Pandas and penguins

Must See Jewelry: Digby and Iona!

2010-04-13T19:00:00.000-07:00

I've never done this before (and I'm not sure that I'm going to make a habit of it), but I made a promise back in December, so I must stick to my word!

Thanks to the world of blogging I was introduced to an adorable jewelry line based out of Brooklyn, known as Digby & Iona. What really attracted me to them were not only the intriguing pieces of jewelry (you'll see my favorites below), but also the story behind the brand:

As a young boy growing up in Maine, Aaron Ruff was fascinated with the idea of stumbling upon hidden treasures and unearthing ancient relics. Created in 2006, the “Digby & Iona” namesake stems from a trip to Nova Scotia, taken before the company had ever been established. Feeling a connection with the small province and wanting to maintain a level of anonymity, Ruff chose to name his company after the two quiet seaside towns in Nova Scotia.

The son of a craftsman, Ruff has grown up with a strong sense of artistry and construction. Working as both a carpenter and cabinetmaker, he enrolled at Parsons to study furniture design. But after taking a class in jewelry making, Ruff soon discovered his true craft. While enjoying the familiarity and technique of creating furniture, he found a more intimate connection with constructing objects that people could actually wear and behold. This connection is distinct in each one of his well-crafted pieces.

Ruff now works out of his Brooklyn studio, creating jewelry inspired by everything from history and literature, to the design of nature and tools of necessity. Ruff also draws from his childhood fantasies of exploration, which lends a playful quality to his work.

With six collections under his belt and retailers in over 20 cities world wide, Ruff has established a strong foundation from which to build upon. With each new collection, comes a new exploration of material, design, and focus. As the company evolves into broader landscapes, his roots remain planted in furthering the craftsmanship and adventurous nature, which speaks to the heart of the brand.

I really love the inspirations behind the collections; it's very much outside of the box from what we're used to. I've personally found at least 10-15 pieces I'd love to call my own (but my checkbook won't allow that), and I'm very fortunate to know that Digby & Iona is sold here in Seattle. This Dandy will be doing his best to save some money for a piece of this uber-creative jewelry, and I'd love to stop by the studio the next time I'm on the East Coast.

So, scroll down to see some of my absolute favorites. Be sure to take a look at their site and tell me what you think! And of course, if you're feeling so inclined to buy me a piece or two, I'd most certainly not be mad at you.

Black Spot Pistol Ring

Inspector Closeau Necklace

Emerald Cut Ring - For the Emerald Dandy!?

Crown Key Necklace

See more Digby & Iona creations here

What a whirlwind March was

2010-04-06T16:34:00.000-07:00

March was certainly an interesting month for me...

- The first half of the month I was promoted at work. I couldn't have been more thrilled about this promotion (albeit a lateral move) as it finally got me onto the career path I've been working toward for the last three years.

- I celebrated a milestone birthday. Chace, the ever-so-fantastic boyfriend had planned an incredible surprise party for me. 30 of my closest friends and an amazing evening of food, fun, and delicious cocktails. I've never been the BIGGEST fan of celebrating my birthday (my parties have been hit or miss), but this year was the best birthday I've had so far. Thank you to everyone who contributed in making my birthday a success!

- I took a beautiful trip to San Francisco. Though I was overcoming a cold (surprise, surprise), I had very relaxing and enjoyable time. While Chace and I were there we discovered many beautiful areas of the city. We stayed at the Ritz (the location itself was an exercise in itself just to get to), we did some touristy things (drinks at the Top of the Mark was notably my favorite), and we uncovered some hidden gems in the city (those are my secret!) I returned from the trip in love with San Fran even more than I had been before, and still hope to some day call it home.

Then there was the icing on the cake...

- I broke my hip. Yes, you read that correctly. I shattered my hip while walking the dog. If you could see the x-ray... I somehow managed to rip the ball of the femur off with one casual fall. Needless to say the fall was a tough one; I saw some air and landed all of my body weight on my left hip. This fall provided me with my first ambulance ride, and my first ever broken bone. I was hospitalized for three days but am now in recovery. Things are going smoothly, but I can't put any weight on my left foot, which essentially makes me a one legged wonder for the next 6 weeks. Yes, I said 6 weeks. I can't really do anything during that time except for read, write, watch tv, and binge out on junk food (nix the binging: summer is right around the corner).

Needless to say I've been getting a lot of writing done over the last week or so (with an old fashioned pen and paper) so I'll work on getting that copied over to the blog when I get around to it.

100 Things before I go

2010-03-23T16:00:00.000-07:00

I've seen this on many blogs over the past few months, so I thought it best to plagiarize the idea and personalize it to my own goals and desires. I've listed 100 Things I want to do before I go: this list is by no means all inclusive. I've already taken care of a few on the list, and will continue to keep you updated if I can scratch one off the list (or hell, maybe even add one!)

Enjoy my list - I'd love to hear about yours!

100 Things Before I Go

1. Own a piece of property

2. Spend at least 1 year living car free

3. Live in a city other than Seattle

~~4. Visit New York~~

5. Spend a Christmas in Paris

6. Try hot yoga

7. And pilates

8. Eat at a restaurant where coats are required

9. Have my writing published in some shape or form

10. Attend Burning Man

11. Tour Europe by rail

12. See the Taj Mahal

13. Take a walk along the Great Wall

14. Visit a pyramid

15. Ride in a Sea Plane

16. Be debt free

17. Pick up Piano once again

18. Attend a fashion week (NYC, Paris, or Milan, preferably)

19. Take drawing more seriously

20. And painting

21. Own a dog

22. Go on a cruise

23. Travel across America by train

24. Acquire my first piece of art

25. Have a job that requires travel

26. Get discovered

27. Become closer with my sister

28. Ride a dinner train

29. Pay for a vacation for my parents (Hawaii)

30. See Coral beds

31. Run a marathon (or half)

32. Be someone’s mentor

33. Get married (legally)

34. Visit the South – New Orleans

35. Ride a swamp crawler

36. Go to DisneyWorld

37. Ride in a hot air balloon

38. Ride in a helicopter

~~39. Get photographed by a street photographer…~~

40. Get a tattoo of meaning

41. Get pierced

42. Purchase a piece of men’s Chanel

43. And men’s Christian Louboutin

44. And of course, Balenciaga

45. Go to the Kentucky Derby

~~46. Visit California Wine Country~~

47. Ride in a police motorcade

48. Tap Dance, again

49. See Alcatraz at night

~~50. Ride a Cable Car~~

~~51. Watch a Burlesque Show~~

~~52. Experience a spa getaway~~

~~53. Stay at a 5-Star hotel~~

54. Fly first class

55. See a show on Broadway

56. Have a breakfast club

57. And a book club

~~58. Graduate College~~

59. Travel through the Panama Canal

60. Learn how to meditate

61. See the Northern Lights

62. Read the Bible. Cover to Cover

63. Watch every Hitchcock movie made

64. And every James Bond film

65. Have High Tea

66. Go to the Olympics

~~67. Go skinny dipping~~

68. Prepare and host a dinner party

69. Sit on a jury – still to this day I’ve never been summoned

70. Experience Carnival in Rio

71. And Mardi Gras in New Orleans

72. Experience an Olympic Event

73. Drive the Autobahn

74. Drive a convertible down the coast, top down, music blaring

75. Learn to cook and bake so that people seek out dinner invites

76. Get in great physical shape

77. Bench press my body weight or greater

78. Maintain a savings account equal to or greater than my yearly salary

79. Go go dance – amateur OR professional

80. Attend a masquerade ball

81. And a roaring 20s party a la Great Gatsby

82. Fulfill each place on my L list

83. Ride a bullet train

84. And a Hovercraft

85. Showcase something artistic, from conception to finished product (be it art, photography, clothing)

~~86. Visit a volcano~~

87. Write a novel – even if it’s never published

88. Visit MOMA

89. Participate in Project 365

90. …and NaNoWriMo

91. Buy coffee for the person behind me.

92. Sleep underneath the stars

93. Kiss in the rain

94. Be a part of a studio audience (Ellen?!)

95. Ride a bull (mechanical, preferably)

96. Ride a segway

97. Drive a bus

98. Throw a surprise party

99. Ice skate at Rockefeller Plaza

100.Go on a safari

Lust List Update

2010-03-23T15:44:00.000-07:00

With the sun beginning to shine, it's certainly time for a little update on my Fall Lust List - and shame on me for having not created one for Spring yet!

+ Jimmy Choo + H&M: These specific pieces pictured above are what I have my heart set on: the suede boot and man-bag in that stunning deep grey/green color. I hope to get my hands on some Jimmy Choo! I'm kicking myself for having only gotten the boots - I don't know why I didn't get the bag to match!

+ iPhone: Yes it's true, I'm currently in the minority without an iPhone. My contract is up in November so this looks like a pretty good possibility. Done and Done.

+ Balenciaga 'City' Clutch: I've been on the market for the infamous man clutch. A folder that's daring yet not too feminine, which is why I've been drooling over this Balenciaga. Black leather with silver hardware gives this piece a harsh rocker edge, while still serving the purpose I'm looking for. I couldn't afford it, and haven't been able to find it anywhere anymore!

+ Harem / Drop Crotch Pants: I'm not looking to make a complete fashion statement here, but I've really been inspired by the Harem pant as of late. I'd like to find a version made of jersey or another type of comfortable fabric for those days when I'm running errands, traveling, or being completely lazy at Vivace. Still looking...

+ Desert Boots: So versatile and you know my love for boots. I'm thinking of sticking with a lighter neutral suede to carry over between seasons. My Jimmy Choo + H&M Boots have done the trick so far...

+ Colored Leather: Forget getting a black or brown leather bomber (as I already have one), I'm really in the mood for a piece of leather in a different color. Perhaps I'll hunt down this Grey Diesel leather bomber I've had my eye on... I did it! I got the grey leather from Diesel and I couldn't love it more if I tried!

+ Sargeant Pepper Coat: Loving this Dolce inspired coat (by Zara) with the red trim and brass details. Thinking this would go great with my skinny's and riding boots. Still looking...

+ Skinny Jeans: In black and grey. I have a pair of indigo, but I'd like super skinny's to show off the figure and also work back to my obsession with boots and driving mocs. Have the grey, haven't found a good pair of black yet...

+ Electric Yellow: I'm currently obsessing over this color which started to make an introduction during Spring. I haven't a specific piece in mind, but I'm sure I'll go with a t-shirt or cardigan so that I can use it between seasons. YES, I found the perfect Electric Yellow VNeck from American Apparel... I might need to get another one soon since the color fades pretty quickly.
+ New York City: Last season my vacationing lust was San Fran (and will continue to be) though I managed to sneak away for a long weekend. I've never been to New York, so I'd like to give it a shot. Who knows, maybe I'll fall in love and never return? Mission accomplished. It was too quick of a weekend vacation, I definitely need to go back!
+ Snood: Similar to the Burberry snood pictured, I'd love to get one to be able to through on when I'm in a hurry. I'm thinking I'll find mine at American Apparel or perhaps H&M as I don't want something that screams labels. Just as I expected: American Apparel.
+ Contrasting Details: Much like this cardigan, I'm loving pieces with contrasting colors. Maybe I'll continue with my love for cardigans with this wardrobe update. Still looking...

Big Changes are coming

2010-03-07T23:31:00.001-08:00

Just around the corner!! These changes can truly change my lack of attention to this blog - I can already note my attention coming back to full span.

Over the course of the next two weeks I will be changing jobs (I'm finally pursuing what interests me most!), celebrating a momentous occasion, and taking a fantastic albeit somewhat relaxing vacation. All in all, my hard work, my time invested, and my energy spent for so long are finally coming to fruition.

I couldn't be more excited for this month if I tried!!

In other news: I've been concocting my own personal bucket lists entitled '100 things before I go' and I really can't wait to share it with you. The only problem... I have just 97! Does anyone have any suggestions or perhaps ideas from your own bucket list?

Until next time my friends...

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So much for that!

2010-02-09T22:19:00.001-08:00

Clearly getting to spend time with my writing hasn't been in my favor as of late. My life has been a veritable whirlwind of stress and anxiety - I'm trying everything I can to bounce back to my normal self.

Don't get me wrong, life is dandy for the most part... I have just been working so hard that all of my freetime (what's left of it) is spent lounging around the house out of sheer exhaustion. Whatever the case I can't help but feel somewhat incomplete when I don't get to express my thoughts through my writing and I HAVE to make that change.

On another note: I have a LOT of exciting things coming up in my life in the near future and I can't wait to share it with you all!!

Cheers!

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Does time ever slow down?

2010-01-26T22:32:00.001-08:00

Here I go again with my lack of posting. I HATE that I haven't had a chance to express myself through the figurative pen and paper.

So... To try and make my blog more accessible to me I've downloaded an app to allow me the opportunity to write whenever the mood strikes me.

Well folks... Let's see how this works!

- Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone

Mistral Kitchen: Worth the hype?

2010-01-19T15:24:00.000-08:00

Mistral Kitchen: Located on Westlake

It seems as if it's been ages since I last wrote about my Emerald City dining experiences, but I've found myself unable to contain myself over my latest experience. Just last week I had the pleasure of checking out one of the newest, most raved about restaurants in Seattle: Mistral Kitchen.

I had walked past the restaurant many times en route Downtown, and with all of the rave reviews I had heard I simply couldn't wait to try the place out. While I was hoping to post a stellar review on how phenomenal the service was and how fantastic the food tasted, I can't help myself but write the opposite.

First and foremost, I will admit the setting is absolutely stunning. The ambience is one of a kind, and makes you feel like a million bucks. Though I enjoyed my surroundings, I was very disappointed with my service. My server admitted to not liking many things on the menu (she considered her own palette to be very bland, so had a difficult time choosing menu favorites), and was also quite flighty. It almost felt as if her head was in the clouds, and my table was the last thing on her mind.

I was also disappointed with the menu items. While I was keen to the idea that Mistral Kitchen changes their menu daily (thus a smaller menu), they certainly didn't prepare for such a business model. Our reservation was at 8:30, and by that point they were already out of 2 of the 5 entrees on the menu! I can't even imagine what it would be like to join Mistral Kitchen for dinner at, say, 9:00 or even 9:30. Maybe next time I try them out I should go in for an early bird special?

Lastly what killed me was their portion sizes. Don't get me wrong, I'm not looking for the equivalent to Claimjumpers or an all-you-can-eat buffet, but for $26 I'm expecting my pork chop to have a little more than a tablespoon of squash and potatoes. Maybe I'm crazy, but some kind of sustenance would have been nice.

So when asking myself "Is Mistral Kitchen worth the hype?" I'm certain you know my answer. Maybe they're still working out their opening kinks (though it's been about a month now), or maybe I happened upon an "off day." Whatever the case may be, I can't help but to be brutally honest in my lackluster experience.

SJP: Am I the only one?

2010-01-19T15:09:00.000-08:00

Fashion Mags and tabloids alike have been hot on the presses regarding the latest in celebufashions. Sarah Jessica Parker (the infamous Carrie Bradshaw) has been recently announced as the latest to join the House of Halston. It seems that the world of fashion seems to be in an uproar over SJP partaking in a fashion line, and with the latest burn of LiLo at Ungaro (read: DISASTER), why wouldn't people be going nuts?

To be completely honest I think it's a very smart idea, and applaud the team at Halston for their choices. First off, Halston has been a floundering design house for years and years and has needed a change; in fact, many American's have always thought Halston to be a brand of deodorant or line of towels carried at JCPenneys, and certainly not a couture house. Many people truly don't understand Halston and all of it's Studio54 glory or its American Couture sensibilities; even though many have tried to revive the house they've always come up short.

The house is currently invested by Harvey Weinstein and Tamara Mellon, and I'm confident that the addition of SJP will help the house immensely. SJP has taken an equity stake (yes, she's investing in the company), and will be working primarily on the Halston Heritage line (the labels secondary line). Parker has been known to flaunt Halston during her Sex and the City days (and we'll be seeing even more in SATC2) so this brand association and recognition is able to appeal to the masses. With Parker as the face of Halston, the company will most certainly see an upturn in interest from the public.

I've always loved Sarah Jessica, and while I can't necessarily speak to her designing sensibilities, I'm confident that she will be able to help revive the ailing house of Halston. Let's look at it this way: even if SJP can't design worth a damn (which she might actually surprise us), the news has certainly brought much more hype to the Label than most people are used to. If anything, it's certainly become a great marketing ploy for Halston.

Lunchtime Quickie: Booty Pop

2010-01-18T10:28:00.001-08:00

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I've got Spring Fever...

2010-01-13T13:50:00.000-08:00

... and I can't seem to fight it off!!

Seattle weather has been so dreary as of late; it's left me tired, listless, and incredibly uninspired. I can't help but dream of warmer destinations where I'm surrounded by warmth, light, and sunkissed skin. Though many fashionistas find enjoyment in the fall/winter months with the ability to layer and accessorize to their hearts content, I find myself yearning towards the heat. Wouldn't you want to be enjoying yourself like this young chap pictured below?

photo by: The Sartorialist

I guess all I can do for now is dream of a more desirable destination...

GUCCI does it again

2010-01-13T13:22:00.000-08:00

By now we're all aware of my love for Gucci, and SS '10 is certainly no different. Even more so than usual, I find myself attracted to the collection thanks to the ad campaign shot by Mert & Marcus, two photographers in high demand.

Take a look and tell me what you think. The collection makes me want to move to the Riviera and become a secret agent, or maybe even a playboy. Hey, a boy can dream,right?

see more GUCCI SS10 ads here

see more Mert & Marcus here

It's Electric

2010-01-03T22:32:00.000-08:00

If you know Emerald Dandy (that's me), you know I LOVE wearing color. I've typically found myself wearing bold colors and this spring will be no different. With the latest 80s inspirations strutting down the runways as well as my latest obsession with Miami Vice (I don't care what you think, that show is amazing) I find myself obsessing over all things electric. Day-glo oranges, neon greens and florescent blues, electric yellows and hot pinks are all colors I'm considering to incorporate into my spring wardrobe.

Now don't you worry: I won't be a head-to-toe highlighter. Be it a t-shirt, a cardigan, or even just a scarf, I think the electric colors will be a perfect touch to a classic wardrobe of blacks, whites, and grays. Though I may be obsessed with the 80s and all things neon, Emerald Dandy promises to interpret this trend in a tasteful style reflective of 2010.

Emerald Dandy wants to know: What are your thoughts on electrics and all things neon? Do you think the 80s are making a comeback?

Here's to 2010

2010-01-01T21:08:00.000-08:00

Happy New Year!

It's so hard to believe that a decade has just flown by. At any rate, I've done enough looking back to the past year and am now ready to move forward. Today has been such a relaxing first day to the new year and new decade; I spent much of my time relaxing and re-evaluating. Though I'm not one to set resolutions, I do have a few key things in which I'd like to improve for 2010:

- Be debt free by 2011. My credit card debt has been far too high for a few years now, and as embarrassing as it is to admit, I absolutely hate having this skeleton in my closet. I've already made some choices that will help financially; making this a priority will help me rid this problem rather quickly.

- Become a better cook. Better yet, BECOME a cook. I can hardly make toast without setting my studio ablaze. Chace doesn't know this yet, but I'm going to turn to him and his expertise to force myself to learn more about the art of cooking.

- Focus on my writing. I love to write, but I don't always make it obvious. I neglected Emerald Dandy for a few months last year and it showed. I love writing on my blog, but would also like to see myself find additional outlets in the upcoming year.

- Exercise. Cliche, I know, but this is really important to me. I sometimes can get very self-conscious with myself and the way I look, primarily because my lifestyle can often times be unhealthy. This year I want to reach my best physical state by creating a routine. I've already gotten my gym membership and have started in to the groove, I just have to make sure I don't lose sight.

- Improve my communication: outside of writing.

- Learn to love more. Move on from the pain I've endured and become better at unconditionally loving my friends and family.

Of course there's more that I'd like to improve upon in the upcoming year, but these are a few of my most important priorities. I feel so very optimistic that 2010 is going to be a great year, and I hope you feel the same way as well.

Emerald Dandy would love to know: What are your New Years Resolutions?

Out with 09

2009-12-28T22:58:00.000-08:00

As the year winds down to a close, I thought it best to recap 2009. This has most certainly been a year of ups and downs, some good times and some bad. Let’s take a look at some of my highlights:

I began my year spending much needed time to myself after receiving a rolodex worth of dating rejections. As the year progressed I found myself back into the dating game, only to find myself questioning my dating range, and if age really mattered (as noted with my unsuccessful date with GenX). I also tried to go the long distance route, only to fail miserably.

(More after the break…)

Of course, how could we forget that I found myself dealing with losing Monte, as he had found his way into the arms of another man early on in ‘08. Having been such a good friend to me, Monte was still a major part of me as I tried so hard to keep him in my life. With an unsuccessful attempt at maintaining a friendship (which I hoped to improve with a trip to San Francisco), a minor health scare, an embarrassing public scene, and a broken heart I finally managed to find my way out of tumultuous times.

My secret, favorite pastime of enjoying wine and bubble bath became a frequented, almost nightly event. I slowly managed to pick myself up from my rut and began to build closer bonds to some fantastic lady friends known more commonly as Roderick and Stefan. These two had become my right hand men, and I have become so thankful to have such great gays in my life.

Then there was Chace, the fantastic man I managed to meet by way of some artful stalking. We’ve had our good times and our bad but have grown so much closer through it all. We’ve picnicked in the park, dined on the 35^th floor, visited New York for my first ever visit, and have since taken our relationship to a deeper level.

I did some soul searching after attending one of the most awkward family functions conceivable. I realized that no matter how dysfunctional my family may be, my love for them will never fade. Pride (gay pride) was also a topic of contemplation as I not only missed the festivities for the year but got into a very heated debate over Pride with one of my closest friend, Alyssa.

The changes in 2009 continued on additional fronts. I found my way into real estate heaven with a fabulous city-facing studio. My writing was taken to the next level as I was offered a job working as an online contributer. Success was also found at my day job, as I was promoted midway through the year.

All in all, I can’t say that this year was necessarily a favorite of mine. It was, however, a memorable one with lots of growing pains that have made me much stronger than I was just one year ago. To be completely truthful, 2009 to me was the beginning to a very promising future: the foundation an even better life than I already had. While it’s been an incredible journey so far I find myself ecstatic to see what the future will bring.

Emerald Dandy wants to know: What was your most memorable event of 2009? What do you hope to accomplish in 2010?

McQueen strikes again!

2009-12-28T00:07:00.000-08:00

My love for McQueen has continued. Thanks to the latest post by Terence I've fallen in love with these absolutely crazy blue patent gladiator sandals. Yes, I said it: BLUE. PATENT. GLADIATOR SANDALS. Why am I so attracted to these? I have absolutely no need for these, nor am I sure that I'd really ever wear them but I can still lust over them nonetheless.

Here they are...

Interested in buying for me? I mean... for yourself? Head over to Brown's to snag yourself a pair.

Merry Christmas!!

2009-12-24T22:30:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas!!

Emerald Dandy is wishing you a safe and Happy Holiday!!

May it be filled with lots of fabulous gifts, good food, family, fun, FASHION, and love.

**I'm on a little trip out of the city to be with family, but will be back in full force very soon.

Housewife Heaven

2009-12-17T11:40:00.000-08:00

I've died and gone to Housewife Heaven. Teresa Guidice from Real Housewives of New Jersey has responded to my tweets!

I know, I know, it's nothing to scream from the mountaintops, but I've often wondered whether or not these celebrity tweeps were really more than just a twitbot. I have to admit that I love my first celeb response came from New Jersey - those ladies are a definite fave!

Don't Let the Grinch Steal Your Ginch

2009-12-15T21:40:00.000-08:00

Models working their Ginch

My oh my what a hectic Holiday this year has been! I'm honestly surprised I haven't fallen over in a wretched, tired heap from everything that's happened since Halloween. Though my life has been overly busy, I felt it necessary to re-cap a wonderful Holiday Party I attended at Retail Therapy: Don't Let the Grinch Steal Your Ginch.

Hosted by the fabulous ladies of Team Diva, Retail Therapy (a favorite local boutique of mine) had become transformed into a veritably quaint runway with hors d'oeuvres, wine and champagne. In mere moments upon arriving the show had begun with scantily clad models showing off the latest in sexy undergarments.

(More after the jump...)

You should all know by now that the Emerald Dandy loves his underwear (attention to fashionable details should include all aspects of the wardrobe), so this show was certainly a fun one. Everything about the show was enjoyable: the crowd was having a wonderful time while the models were confidently strutting their stuff (and reasonably so). The event had been such a hit, it had drawn a crowd both inside and out (passerbys had literally stopped dead in their tracks!) and was in my eyes most certainly a success.

Check the crowd outside!

If you've never been to Retail Therapy before, I highly suggest you do so right away. This clever little boutique is not only home to a wide variety of sassy undies, but great local fashions and many other clever gift ideas. And if you're lucky (and in Seattle), I'll be sure to keep you informed on any upcoming happenings with the fabulous Kim and Chavi at Team Diva.

The REAL Melrose Place

2009-12-15T10:00:00.000-08:00

Melrose Place: An elegant Spanish-style apartment complex in the trendy Melrose neighborhood of Los Angeles, the lives and relationships of a diverse group of 20-somethings intertwine to form a close-knit surrogate family. I’ll admit that I’ve never closely followed the show (I’ve got too many to watch as is), but who knew that when I signed my lease 15 months ago that I’d be moving into the REAL Melrose Place; or at least, Seattle’s version.

So maybe there are just a few differences from the series to my life. I don’t live in LA so I’m nowhere near Melrose, but many consider this neighborhood very up and coming. The building isn’t Spanish-style (it’s modern), and Ashley Simpson-Wentz doesn’t live here, either. For those of us that do live here, our lives aren’t nearly as glamorous as the tv show, but we’ve become so intricately brought together that our story is too unique not to expose.

(More after the jump...)

I had decided to move into the Apollo because I was looking to make some changes. Though I had loved my old apartment on Queen Anne that was shared with Monte, I knew that I wanted something sleeker and modern, and something that would allow me more freedom and independence. My good friends Austin and Olivia (you’ll learn about them soon) had first moved into the building a year before and couldn’t be happier with the building. Having spent plenty of time there, I found a great apartment in the building and began to make some changes. This is when the fun starts to begin…

I had learned that Austin and Olivia had moved into the building after a recommendation from their friend Kami, who also lived in the building. Not long after, their friends Mark and Kendra moved into the building as well, creating a tight knit group of friends. Things seemed to be going just fine until some friendships were tested and destroyed in the name of money. Needless to say, Mark and Kendra had put a price on their friendships, and clearly their friends weren’t worth it. As tension had gotten worse between this group, Mark and Kendra had left the Apollo.

Then there was me getting into the mix. I was still trying to make my own, but from time to to time would have Monte hanging out with me, almost to the point that he was becoming a staple at the Apollo. It was only after I found out he had cheated with my neighbor at my place that I decided to stop inviting him over. Yes, you heard that right: Monte had hooked up with my (happily partnered, or so I thought) neighbor down the hall.

I found myself attracted to a handsome man who lived in the courtyard (Chace), but the only problem was that he lived with his boyfriend. Fast forward a few months and they had broken up and the boyfriend had moved away. It wasn’t long before I managed an opportunity to meet him (read about it here), and we are still together to this day.

Through the early stages of my relationship with Chace I learned bits and pieces about his ex-boyfriend Brandon, who had moved to Chicago to be closer to family. The relationship had been doomed from the start, and it was a regret both of them are glad to have moved away from. I was truly never phased or worried by any of it; until the day I found out that Brandon was moving back to Seattle. Brandon wasn’t just moving back to Seattle, he was moving back to the Apollo. I had never really dealt with exes in the past, but certainly didn’t know how to deal with them living in the same building. I knew this was going to be interesting.

Lastly there was Jillian, my (now former) boss who also lives in the building and lives two doors down from Brandon. By coincidence we had managed to be in the same building, which led to quite a few interesting (and sometimes awkward) situations. I had later found out that Jillian was having a little relationship on the side with Trent, our landlord, and was getting discounted rent for it! I have to admit I was a little jealous, but slightly bothered by it at the same time.

Though there haven’t been any deaths, pregnancies, or other drama to make the front page of the news, the Apollo has certainly been Seattle’s equivalent to Melrose Place. Just when I thought I had gotten enough drama in all other areas of my life, I found it knocking on my door: quite literally. Here at the Apollo there have certainly been some good memories (and some bad), but I can certainly guarantee that I will not be resigning my lease come spring; this has been an episode that isn’t to be renewed.

Guido? Guid-no.

2009-12-10T10:00:00.000-08:00

I have a confession to make: For those of you who don't know me, I am OBSESSED with quite a few tv shows. This is including (but not limited to) Real World, Million Dollar Listing, Project Runway, Flipping Out, Real Housewives (OC, NY, Atlanta, NJ), Tool Academy, and most recently, JERSEY SHORE.

One of the biggest reasons I've become obsessed with Jersey Shore is not necessarily from the drama (though it is funny), but rather because it's chalk full of Guido's. I've heard about Guido's (and guidette's) but always figured them to be an urban legend; until discovering this show.

I wiki'd the definition of Guido... (more after the jump)

...and got the following: a slang term for a lower class or working class urban American. The Guido stereotype is often portrayed as humorously thuggish with an overtly macho attitude.

What kills me about Guido's isn't because they're proud of being Italian, or that they're definition of a good time is hanging out on the Jersey shore, but rather their STYLE. Of course I had to include some pictures for your viewing pleasure - because I just can't get enough!

These pictures have more than a thousand words. To Guido's, style is defined by the amount of time spent at the gym and the tanning bed, and the amount of aquanet used to keep the blown-out hair in check. It's also defined by popped collars and Christian Audigier, super tight tank tops, and all things decorated with skulls or tattoos.

I'm not one to judge someone by their style so long as they have the confidence to pull it off, but when it's a "style" that's been mass produced, I just can't handle it. It's not right to spend more time applying hair gel and lip gloss than your girlfriend would, and as much as I appreciate a worked out and tan body as much as the next one, there isn't a need to make that your number one priority. Though as disturbed as I am by the Guido/Guidette phenomena, I'd be lying if I didn't say that I kinda want to hit the Jersey shore to see this in action.

Hopefully you haven't fallen in love with the Guido trend having read this but if by some reason you have, check out this great little tutorial I found:

New York, New York

2009-12-08T10:00:00.000-08:00

Bright lights; Big city. Start spreadin the news: just recently I had been whisked away to the Big Apple with Chace for my first New York experience. Yes, in the 20-something years I’ve been alive I had yet to visit NYC, and had absolutely no idea what to expect. In a literal New York minute I had been overdosed with what seemed like so much (but was really just a snapshot) of what NYC had to offer.

My trip was a quick one. A 4- day and 3- night stay at a friend’s apartment in the East Village. From the moment I landed at JFK to the moment I departed, I felt like there was never a chance for me to relax, or even so much as to soak up the city. Each day was a literal blur as I progressed from breakfast, to lunch, to dinner and drinks. Soho to Chelsea, Meatpacking to Midtown, keeping track of where I was (or where I was going) was nearly impossible.

In retrospect I’ve finally been able to look through the whirlwind experience I had and truly appreciate my time spent. Not only was I able to have some amazing quality time with Chace but also was able to enjoy things I never had before. My palette for food was expanded as I enjoyed cuisines such as Vietnamese and Venezuelan. I had the pleasure of finding and enjoying everything within a ten-minute walk (or subway) at the very most. If there was anything (really, anything at all) I needed I could more than likely have it delivered to the apartment in fifteen minutes or less. While there, a friend of mine had summed it up perfectly: “"the thing I love about New York is that I can have a hooker, coke, weed, and Thai food all delivered within 15 minutes,” she wasn’t kidding.

I also found myself awe-inspired by the sights and people of New York; thanks to The Sartorialist I always knew there was a fashionable side of the city, but I really had no idea how beautiful these people were. Every boutique and designer I dreamt of existed within reach, often times two or three times throughout the town. For four straight days I was in a literal fashion heaven. Though I loved being able to surround myself with delicious cuisine and couture, my checkbook didn’t exactly feel the same.

There were many things I found to be beautiful about New York, but there were certainly things I could’ve done without. Everyday seemed to be trash-day, or at least I had the perfect luck of following the garbage routes day after day. Plastic was rarely accepted wherever we went and I was not prepared for the cash only policies that surprised me at the end of each transaction. Lastly, finding a decent cup of coffee was practically impossible. I’ve never considered myself to be a java snob, but New York is clearly lacking.

Everyone had warned me that I would fall in love with New York the moment I arrived; I honestly can’t say that I did. I can say that I enjoyed soaking up the city each and every minute I was there, and look forward to the next time I can explore further. In the meantime I suppose I’ll stick to my emerald roots, but it wont be long until my next voyage. Until next time, New York.

Heavage? Oh boy...

2009-12-04T10:00:00.000-08:00

If you can recall my post earlier in the year, When bad V's happen to good people, you can recall my disgust for the plunging V transforming the boys of Seattle. I'll admit part of my hatred is because I personally feel uncomfortable wearing them in public, but also because most men haven't learned how to wear them properly.

While I was browsing through my fashion feeds today I discovered that "Heavage" is becoming all the rage worldwide. As seen in "The Cut," heavage (or commonly known as male cleavage) is becoming a trend of today. I guess I'll go on record to say that I'm not opposed to this notion any longer, so long as it is executed properly.

I have to admit, if Heavage is becoming the norm, what is next? Meggings (Mr. Field's favorite; kudos are in order)? Manx? Skirts a la Marc Jacobs and Zang Toi? That's the exciting thing about fashion; we'll never know what's next!

Some Serious Shoe Porn

2009-12-03T12:00:00.000-08:00

more shoe porn after the jump...

All photos courtesy of style.com

from the top: Alexander McQueen (x2), Gucci (x2), Fendi (x2), Lanvin, Prada (x2), Valentino, Versace

Though we're in full Fall swing, Spring collections have debuted and it was most certainly a bonanza of shoe porn. Now, I'm not one to obsess (or lust for that matter) over shoes, but Spring has provided you lovely ladies with some fantastic additions! Though I may not ever wear heels (Sorry Lawrence, I just won't), I can still appreciate them from a fashionable standpoint. It's probably best I'm not a girl, as my check book would hate me even MORE from my shoe obsession. Believe you me, I'd be rocking some of these outrageous heels, as I always enjoy making the shoes or accessories the statement piece to an outfit. So maybe some of these are outlandish (read: McQueen), but one can certainly appreciate them from an artistic (and a head turning) standpoint. You best believe, that if Emerald Dandy see's anyone sporting these heels next spring, I'll certainly be chasing them down and forcing them to be my friend!

Emerald Dandy wants to know: What are your thoughts on shoes? What do you love to wear and what wouldn't you be caught dead in?

The Real Me

2009-12-01T10:01:00.000-08:00

The Real Me

6 years ago is when my story begins to truly unfold. Having freshly graduated from high school I was eagerly awaiting my transition from small town country to big time city. In my mind I was quickly leaving the life of Green Acres in exchange for Park Avenue. I had no idea what I was getting myself into, but I didn’t seem to be scared. I was young and naïve, and had the perfect roadmap to achieving success. I grew up thinking I’d be a college grad turned successful architect, married to a model, living in suburbia with a white picket fence, a luxury SUV, and 2.5 children. Funny to think that was my grand plan, and even funnier to think what life can do to you.

My time at school took me through a variety of experiences. I quickly realized that architecture wasn’t at all what I cared to do and instead found myself obsessing over fashion. I couldn’t get enough of it; I had worked in retail since the day I was legal to work, I loved reading Vogue (and still do), and got chills watching collections strut down the runway. Oddly enough, it was at Vancouver Fashion Week (who knew they had a fashion week?) that I decided that this was the industry I was destined to be a part of.

The love department hadn’t gone as planned for me either. I realized that my supermodel wife would never arrive, but perhaps my supermodel husband was somewhere in the city. No matter how hard I tried to deny it (and believe me, I worked very hard at it), I couldn’t get over my new (somewhat) found fascinations. While this time was a period of new founded freedom and experiences, it was also the most trying and lonely.

I was surrounded by many acquaintances living a lie; on the outside my life looked fantastic yet on the inside it was a train wreck. I spent my first half of college living in a house with 50 Christian men, leading a youth group, pursuing my degree, and executing the perfect cookie cutter life. Yet on the inside I hated myself for I wasn’t able to be truthful to myself. My insecurities left me to believe I would be mocked, ridiculed, even harassed by my lifestyle choices. Fashion and homosexuality weren’t exactly two terms that meshed well with Christianity, so I had to keep convincing myself to get rid of those desires for a more “acceptable” life.

The struggle continued and after experiencing some darker moments I forged on by making changes I thought were best: I moved into an apartment on my own, and continued to pursue my interests in the fashion industry. I was still nowhere near comfortable with my choices, but it didn’t seem to matter: it’s what I liked best. I managed to keep a dual lifestyle going for nearly 3 more years before I finally couldn’t take it any longer. I was so miserable on the inside with having to keep this façade going, that I would often find myself at home crying in hysterics, looking for quick fixes to make this pain go away.

I can remember the moment of my breaking point very vividly, the instance I decided I could no longer lie about who the real me really was. It started over lunch with my parents, when my mom kept bringing up marriage and dating, wondering when “my time” would come. I couldn’t handle it anymore, and like verbal vomit my secrets began to unfold out in the midst of our Phad Thai and Iced Tea. I wasn’t the son my parents had dreamt of, and my cookie cutter dream was never going to happen. I wasn’t going to marry (a girl at least), and I wasn’t going to become a doctor or an architect. I had worked so hard to get where I was at that point, I wasn’t going to continue on in a lie.

From that point on my life got easier day after day. I was able to live my life as I wanted and intended, and no longer went about changing myself to please those around me. I surrounded myself with great friends to help me through my journey (which you will soon learn about) and forged a life I couldn’t be more proud of. Though where I’m at today is in no way shape, or form where I had expected to be had you asked 6 years ago, I am so thrilled to be able to live life as the Real Me: John Christopher.

I'm back!

2009-12-01T10:00:00.001-08:00

Welcome back!!

I know it seems like forever, but Emerald Dandy is back and better than before. I've had a lot of time to figure out the purpose of my blog and be able to focus in on what I care about most.

SO you're probably wondering: What about Emerald Dandy changed?

I've made my blog user friendly: It's been cleaned up and streamlined for your viewing pleasure (the unnecessary riff raff has been removed).
Tag's have been organized. Instead of having hundreds of pointless tags, each now serve a better, more relative purpose.
You can now tweet my posts! If you feel so inclined (and care to share the love) the option has been made available.
Enhanced blogroll. I've made it easier for you to check out some of my favorite bloggers. Be sure to check back as I tend to update often.
Minor cosmetic changes. I thought I'd update Emerald Dandy just a little bit to make it easier on the eyes.
Writing content. I'm keeping my focus (as best I can) to fashion, food, and love. You can still consider me Seattle's Gay "Carrie Bradshaw," I wont mind!
Involvement. I love hearing and getting feedback from my readers, and would like to open that up to you! But of course, this blog is my form of self-expression, so we'll see how that goes.

Stay tuned faithful readers, I've been working on my content for quite some time now. I'm so glad to be back!

Cheers,

Emerald Dandy

December 1st...

2009-11-11T22:08:00.000-08:00

Hello faithful bloggers!

I just wanted to give you a quick update before I head to NYC for the weekend (YES, Emerald Dandy is going to NYC for the first time EVER).

I have set the date, and my blogging will return on DECEMBER 1st, just in time for the holidays!

I've been very busy writing away and getting my blog freshened up for you. There has been a lot going on and I can't wait to share it all with you!

In the meantime, have a Happy Thanksgiving and enjoy yourselves. I can't wait to re-join you again!

Cheers,

Emerald Dandy

Stay tuned...

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Emerald Dandy is about to undergo a facelift (I'm referring to the blog, not the man behind it). I'll admit I've been neglecting this blog for quite some time, but the tides have turned and I am able to reinvest myself into my personal passion.

Stay tuned! Enjoy what I've written thus far and get ready for much more to come.

Cheers!

Spotted!

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Photo Credit: Kam Martin

Yes that's right, I've been spotted by a fellow blogging fashionista, needle+thread! It was most certainly an interesting night as I was working at one of the many Bellevue Fashion Week events, and to my surprise I spotted Miss Kam Martin from across the room. I had never met her before but quickly recognized her fiery red hair and her delightful style from her blog (for which I'm an avid follower). Low and behold, before I had enough time to respond she had approached me asking to take my picture! Of course I delightfully obliged, and had the pleasure of having a great conversation with her about Seattle fashion and style. I look forward to further run-ins with Ms. Martin, but in the meantime I'll surely be enjoying her perspective of Seattle through her fantastic photography.